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Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A Can the Wayward Spouse Ever Gain Their Respect Back?	8/13/2020
	Q&A How Do I Approach Our Vacation Sleeping Plan?	8/13/2020
	Q&A Was Her Behavior Justified?	8/13/2020
	Q&A Is It Ever Okay for the Wayward Spouse to Contact the Affair Partner to Apologize for Their Behavior Towards Them?	8/13/2020
	Q&A What Should My Next Move Be?	8/13/2020
	Q&A What Would You Advise Regarding My Living Situation?	8/13/2020
	Q&A How Can I Heal When I Still Feel I Don't Have Full Disclosure and May Never Get It?	8/13/2020
	Hope Rising 2020 Announcement	8/11/2020
	Q&A Is It Okay to Have Sexual Fantasies of My Wife?	8/07/2020
	Q&A Is My Husband Minimizing His Highly Sexual Affair?	8/07/2020
	Q&A Was This an Emotional Affair?	8/07/2020
	Q&A How Do We Recover When There Was a Sexual Assault?	8/07/2020
	Q&A What Can I Do about My Husband's Recovery?	8/07/2020
	Q&A Is He Still Intentionally Lying to Me and Not Telling Me Everything?	8/07/2020
	Q&A What Do We Do If the Affair Partner Will Not Go Away?	8/07/2020
	Q&A How Should We React to Insensitivity?	8/06/2020
	Q&A Are Polygraphs Helpful and What Types of Questions Are Recommended?	8/06/2020
	Q&A Do Wayward Spouses Sometimes Use Marriage Deficits to Justify an Affair and Ending a Marriage?	8/06/2020
	Q&A Do Men Actually Not Engage Their Heart?	8/06/2020
	Q&A How Can I Take Control of the Intrusive Thoughts?	8/06/2020
	Q&A How Can a Straight Woman Have a Same-Sex Affair?	8/06/2020
	Q&A Can You Heal from Pornography Addiction without Therapy?	8/06/2020
	Q&A Is It Important for Me to Actually Tell Him That I Have Forgiven Him?	8/06/2020
	Q&A How Do I Cope, Accept, and Reconcile with the Reckless Choice My Husband Made?	8/06/2020
	Q&A How Can My Spouse and I Resume Having and Acting on the Desire for Sexual Intimacy in Our Marriage?	8/06/2020
	Q&A Can You Explain to Me Why They Felt the Need to Have Sex Given Their Anxiety?	8/06/2020
	Q&A Is He Really Healing If He’s Thinking of the Affair Partner as a Friend?	8/06/2020
	Q&A How Do I Deal with My Husband Moving Forward with the Affair Partner?	8/06/2020
	Q&A How Could Things Have Been So Bad and I Be So Oblivious to the Point I Thought Everything Was Good?	8/06/2020
	Q&A Why Can't My Husband Show Any Affection If He Says He Loves Me?	8/06/2020
	Q&A Are All Marriages Worth Saving?	7/30/2020
	Q&A How Can We Adapt the Travel Plan for the Wayward Spouse Staying at Home While the Betrayed Is Away?	7/30/2020
	Q&A How Can I Feel Safe Again?	7/30/2020
	Q&A How Can We Move Forward When We Have Both Been Unfaithful?	7/30/2020
	Q&A Is This Normal or Is There Something Wrong with Me?	7/30/2020
	Q&A Are We at Risk of Not Fully Recovering?	7/30/2020
	Q&A How Do I Create Safety for Myself When My Vulnerability Was Abused?	7/28/2020
	Q&A How Do I Regain Respect and Admiration for My Husband?	7/28/2020
	Q&A How Do I Help My Betrayed Spouse Get past the Anger?	7/28/2020
	Q&A What More Can I Do to Overcome This Trauma?	7/28/2020
	Q&A Will I Ever Be Able to Heal and Overcome Triggers If the Affair Partner Continues to Flirt with My Husband?	7/16/2020
	Q&A Why Do I, as the Wayward Spouse, Treat My Wife with Hateful and Cruel Comments When We Argue?	7/16/2020
	Q&A How Can I Feel Safe When There Is No Empathy?	7/16/2020
	Q&A Should We Separate If My Mate Is Still Unsafe?	7/16/2020
	Q&A How Do You Deal with Triggers That Just Can't Be Avoided?	7/16/2020
	Q&A What Continued Work Do You Recommend for the Years to Come?	7/16/2020
	Q&A How Can I Rebuild Trust with Someone Who Is Constantly Keeping Secrets and Lying?	7/09/2020
	Q&A How Can I Rebuild Trust with Someone Who Is Constantly Keeping Secrets and Lying?	7/09/2020
	Q&A How Long Do You Suggest Waiting, Post Discovery, to Have a Child Together?	7/09/2020
	Q&A Am I Letting Myself Be Abused Again?	7/09/2020