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4574 Resources : All Categories

Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A What Do You Do If Your Spouse Refuses to Acknowledge That Emotional Affairs Are Valid?	10/22/2020
	Q&A Do I Just Wait for Him to Decide?	10/22/2020
	Q&A Have You Ever Heard of Couples Recreating Sexual Encounters between the Wayward Spouse and Affair Partner on Purpose?	10/22/2020
	Q&A How Can I Take Control of My Life So That I Can Forgive and Heal?	10/22/2020
	Q&A Is Confusion and Messy Emotions Normal?	10/22/2020
	Q&A Should We Tell Our Kids about the Infidelity?	10/22/2020
	Q&A Why Is It That My Husband Made the Affair Partners Feel Special but Finds It Hard to Make His Own Wife Feel Special?	10/22/2020
	Q&A How Can Do We Get past This When She Doesn’t Believe She Had a Physical Affair?	10/22/2020
	Q&A Do I Stand by My Husband When He Wants Revenge on the Affair Partner?	10/22/2020
	Q&A How Do I Help My Wife Move past the Offense of My Betrayal and into Healing?	10/22/2020
	Q&A What Do I Do as the Wayward Spouse When the Truth and Love Exercise Goes Wrong?	10/22/2020
	Q&A How Does One Determine What Not to Share with Their Spouse While Remaining Open and Honest?	10/22/2020
	Q&A Should My Husband Contact His Affair Partner to Get an Answer Regarding Her Pregnancy Status?	10/22/2020
	Q&A Am I Wrong to Ask Her to Stop Social Media Use?	10/22/2020
	Q&A What Do You Call This Behavior?	10/22/2020
	Q&A Would Leaving the Marriage Now That He Is Sick Seem Heartless and Cruel?	10/22/2020
	Q&A What Does Moving Forward a Year Later Look Like?	10/22/2020
	Q&A How Can We Deal with Resentments and Move Forward?	10/05/2020
	Q&A What Do I Do When I Don't Believe Something That He Consistently Says Is True?	10/05/2020
	Q&A Biblically, Can You Remarry Your Ex-Spouse?	10/05/2020
	Q&A How Do We Get to the Truth?	10/05/2020
	Q&A Was This Limerence or Something More?	10/05/2020
	Q&A Is It Common for the Wayward Spouse to Not Know 'Why' This Far in Recovery?	9/24/2020
	Q&A Should My Husband Find Another Job to Protect Himself from Relapse?	9/24/2020
	Q&A Is It Wrong to Avoid Contact with In-Laws since My Wayward Husband Villainized Me to Them?	9/24/2020
	Q&A How Do I Move Forward and Continue with Recovery?	9/24/2020
	Q&A What Attracts a Younger Man to an Older, Unattractive Woman?	9/24/2020
	Recovering from Infidelity: Difficulties with Intimacy for the Unfaithful	9/23/2020
	Q&A Does Anyone Know the Name of What My Spouse Does to Keep from Answering a Question with the Truth?	9/22/2020
	Q&A Is Soliciting Prostitutes Always Due to an Addiction?	9/22/2020
	Q&A How Do I Turn off Rumination without Getting Validation from My Husband?	9/22/2020
	Q&A How Do You Handle Ambivalence without Being Co-Dependent?	9/22/2020
	Q&A Is There a Way to Determine the Difference between an Affair Being Motivated by Revenge as Opposed to the Wayward Spouse Justifying an Affair or Are They One in the Same?	9/22/2020
	Q&A How Do I Begin to Deal with This Being True?	9/22/2020
	Q&A How Do I Get over the Constant Reminder and Trigger?	9/22/2020
	Q&A How Do I Find a Happy Medium Where I Can Learn to Be Myself Again, While Still Connecting with Him and Learning to Trust Him Again?	9/22/2020
	Q&A Is It Common to Loose Feelings for Your Wayward Spouse?	9/22/2020
	Q&A How Do I Heal from the Damage of the Internet?	9/22/2020
	Recovering from Infidelity: Difficulties with Intimacy for the Betrayed	9/16/2020
	Q&A How Do I Recover from My Anger Resulting from an Unhealthy Recovery Process?	9/10/2020
	Q&A Would We Be Wrong to Cut off a Child Born as a Result of the Affair to Save Our Marriage?	9/10/2020
	Q&A Why Isn't There Acknowledgement That Infidelity Is a Form of Abuse?	9/10/2020
	Q&A Will I Ever See My Husband as ‘Mine’ Again?	9/03/2020
	Q&A What Factors Are Important When Deciding If the Wayward Spouse Needs to Leave a Job to Distance from the Affair Partner?	9/03/2020
	Q&A How Can These Memories Be Recovered?	9/03/2020
	Q&A Should the Wayward Spouse Contact the Affair Partner When an STD Has Been Diagnosed?	9/03/2020
	Q&A My Wife Is Considering a Revenge Affair. What Should I Do?	9/03/2020
	Q&A How Do I Get to the Truth?	9/02/2020
	Q&A Will the Same Debilitating Pain Continue to Happen over the Years?	9/02/2020
	Q&A How Do I Give up This Need That Is Always in the Back of My Mind?	9/02/2020