All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less The Power of Small Groups How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery How to Survive Infidelity Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain The Problem with Forgiveness Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? 4957 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Do We Safely and Respectfully Navigate Reconciliation, and Re-Integration to the Home, While Separated? 3/22/2021 Q&A How Can I Trust God and Have Faith in Him? 3/22/2021 Q&A Am I Expecting Too Much Too Soon, How Long Does It Take to Start to See That Coming Back? 3/18/2021 Q&A Is There Anything I Can Do to Help Him Work through His Struggles - Which in Turn Will Help Our Marriage? 3/18/2021 Q&A How Does the Betrayed Spouse Productively Handle Contempt and Disgust? 3/11/2021 Q&A Why Does My Wife Not See the Effort and Work It Takes for Me, as the Betrayed, to Stay in the Marriage? 3/11/2021 Q&A What Am I Supposed to Do as the Hurt Spouse Trying to Heal from My Husband’s Hurtful Behavior While Now Navigating My Past? 3/11/2021 Q&A As the Wayward Spouse Will I Ever Fall Back in Love with My Husband? 3/09/2021 Q&A Was He Hoping to Get Caught in an Effort to Have Me End the Marriage? 3/09/2021 Q&A What Does the Betrayed Spouse Do When the Betrayer Just Won’t End the Affair and Shows Signs of Limerence? 3/09/2021 Q&A Am I Being Unrealistic for Wanting to Have a More Loving, Satisfying, Sex Life after Infidelity? 3/09/2021 Q&A Is It Alright for Me Not to Confront My Husband about Breaching the Contract? 3/09/2021 Q&A Is Sharing Triggers with Our Partner Counter Productive? 3/09/2021 Q&A Can You Help You Explain the Difference between Infidelity Trauma or PTSD and Clinical Depression? 3/09/2021 Q&A Why Do I Want to Indulge in Thoughts of the Other Women? 3/09/2021 Q&A Does Affair Recovery Blame the Betrayed Spouse? 3/09/2021 Q&A Could There Really Be Such a Thing as a Midlife Crisis Affair? 3/09/2021 Q&A How Do We Move on with Long Standing Resentments? 3/09/2021 Q&A What Is My Husband's Addiction? 3/04/2021 Q&A What Is She Ambivalent about If There Was No Emotional Attachment to the Affair Partner? 3/04/2021 Q&A Is There a Video on the “Do's and Don'ts” for Helping Someone Who Is Suffering While Going through the Trauma of Infidelity? 3/04/2021 Q&A What Might Be a Better Way to Deal with My Pain? 3/04/2021 Q&A How Do I Handle My Reaction in This Situation? 3/04/2021 Q&A What Steps Can I Take to Learn to Trust Again? 3/04/2021 Q&A Is His Inability to Recall Details of the Affair Normal? 3/04/2021 Q&A Could Postpartum Depression Lead to an Affair? 3/04/2021 Q&A Is My Spouse's Attitude Preventing Limerence from Fading? 3/04/2021 Q&A How Do I Stop Feeling Shame over My Husband's Thoughts? 3/04/2021 Q&A Can I Ever Feel Love Again for Her If I'm Feeling Trapped in This Marriage? 3/04/2021 Q&A Can Cuddling with His Roommate Be Platonic? 3/04/2021 Q&A Can You Go into More Detail about the 'Lonely Hearts Club' Affair? 3/04/2021 Q&A Why Does He Keep Reaching Out to Me If He Is Still in the Affair? 3/04/2021 Q&A Should I Ask about All the Media and Locations They Shared? 3/04/2021 Q&A Why Am I So Afraid to Be Happy? 3/04/2021 Q&A How Do I Forgive Myself for the Ways I Reacted as the Betrayed? 3/04/2021 Q&A Is Being Immature or a Pastors Kid a Legitimate Reason for Making This Mistake? 3/04/2021 Q&A Will I Ever Love and Desire My Husband Again? 3/04/2021 Q&A Why Is My Ex-Husband Now Playing the Victim? 3/04/2021 Q&A Could My Husband Be Done with Recovery? 3/04/2021 Q&A What Is Attacking Classified As? 2/23/2021 Q&A How I Can Move Forward and Get past the Feeling That I Don’t Have the Full Story? 2/23/2021 Q&A How Do We Move Forward When He’s Still Holding on to Resentment Towards Me and I’m the Betrayed? 2/23/2021 Q&A What More Can I Do to Become Safe for Her and Rebuild Our Relationship? 2/11/2021 Q&A How Do I Stop Feeling like My Husband Needs to Own up to the Affair to People in His Life? 2/11/2021 Q&A Am I Wrong to Demand Him to Quit His Job for My Own Healing? 2/11/2021 Q&A When Will I Stop Asking Questions? 1/28/2021 Q&A Is It Normal for an Unfaithful Spouse Get Upset Whenever Asked to Talk about the Inappropriate Behavior? 1/28/2021 Q&A Am I Abnormal for Struggling with Healing? 1/28/2021 Q&A What Are Your Thoughts on Reclaiming Things Associated with the Affair? 1/28/2021 Q&A How Can I Remain Supportive and Loving While Also Protecting Myself? 1/28/2021 Pages« first‹ previous…111213141516171819…next ›last »