All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 The Power of Small Groups Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) How Could You? 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The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse 4912 Resources Type Title Posted Expert Q&A Preview: How Do We Deal with Anger and Rage? 12/17/2020 Q&A How Do I Deal With My Husband's Refusal to Consider Accountability? 12/17/2020 Q&A Why Did My Wayward Husband Share Our Children’s Lives with the Affair Partner? 12/17/2020 Q&A How Will I Know I Am Totally Healed? 12/17/2020 Q&A Can You Recommend Resources for My Husband's Issues? 12/17/2020 Q&A I'm the Hurt Partner and I'm Extremely Codependent, Now What? 12/17/2020 Q&A What Should My Response Be When He Is Ambivalent or Hostile toward God? 12/17/2020 Q&A What Do I Do When My Husband's Needs Are a Trigger for Me? 12/17/2020 Q&A Should I Ask Him the Questions I Have About Presents That He Gave to Her? 12/17/2020 Q&A How Do We Restore Our Sexual Intimacy? 12/17/2020 Q&A Once You Have Done Your Own Work to Heal, How Do You Know If You Should Stay? 12/17/2020 Q&A How Do I Tell Our 9 Year Old Daughter? 12/17/2020 Q&A Have You Seen Polyamorous Couples Come through the Program? 12/17/2020 Q&A Would Her Medication Have Created the Same Brain Chemicals as Limerence? 12/17/2020 Q&A Is My Wife's On-Going Ambivalence Towards Our Relationship the Best That I Can Hope For? 12/17/2020 Q&A What Do I Do When My Teenage Daughters Think I Am the One Refusing to Forgive My Husband and Work on the Marriage, 'Even Though Their Dad Is Trying to Make It up to Me'? 12/17/2020 Q&A How Do I Move Forward with My Husband If There Is No Disclosure? 12/17/2020 Q&A Should We Express What We Need From Each Other? 12/09/2020 Q&A What Can the Wayward Spouse Do to Help the Betrayed Find Acceptance and Healing? 12/09/2020 Q&A How Do You Know When Too Much Damage Has Occurred to Overcome? 12/09/2020 The Anorexic Marriage: A Void of Intimacy 12/02/2020 Q&A What is Objectification? 12/01/2020 Q&A Is Reconciliation Possible? 12/01/2020 Q&A How Does the Wayward Spouse Deal with the In-Then-Out Behavior of Their Spouse? 11/24/2020 Q&A How Much Pain Can One Take before They Break? 11/24/2020 Q&A How Do I Proceed with Recovery Work When the Betrayed Doesn't Want to Get Help? 11/24/2020 Q&A What Do I Do When Exercise Is a Trigger? 11/18/2020 Q&A Is This Ultimatum Unreasonable? 11/18/2020 Q&A Could You Help? 11/18/2020 Q&A Should I Ask Him to Hear My Story? 11/18/2020 Q&A Is It Time to Just Formally End My Marriage? 11/18/2020 Q&A What Should I Do with His Lapse in Judgement? 11/18/2020 Q&A Must I Be Completely Finished with the Grieving Task before I Can Move to Forgiveness? 11/18/2020 Q&A Is It Wrong to Ask My Husband to Understand the Affair Partner's Personality Disorder? 11/18/2020 Q&A How Do I Figure Out What to Do? 11/18/2020 Q&A Should He Leave His Job? 11/18/2020 Q&A What Should I Do with an Ambivalent Partner When a Baby Is Involved? 11/18/2020 Q&A Could This Be Sex Addiction and How Is That Different for Recovery? 11/18/2020 Q&A Will It Ever Be Possible to Be Friends with My Affair Partner Again? 11/18/2020 Q&A How Do I Know if My Husband Has Completely Detoxed From the Affair Partner? 11/18/2020 Q&A What Is the Census of Disclosing the Affair to the Affair Partner's Spouse? 11/18/2020 Tweeting Or Cheating? Social Media Affairs And What To Do 11/18/2020 Q&A How Do I Remember Details of the Affair That I Seem to have Repressed? 11/12/2020 Q&A How Do I Address My Overwhelming Fear? 11/12/2020 Q&A How Do I Discern If or When It's Safe to Trust Him Again? 11/12/2020 Q&A What Can I Do about My Defensive Husband That Doesn't Follow through on His Commitments to the Marriage? 11/12/2020 Q&A What Do I Do about a Husband That Does Not Want to Work on Himself? 11/12/2020 Q&A How Do I Move on with My Wayward Husband? 11/12/2020 Q&A How Should the Betrayed Respond When the Wayward Spouse Lashes Out? 11/12/2020 Q&A What Should I Do as the Wayward Spouse When My Spouse Has a Breakdown? 11/12/2020 Pages« first‹ previous…121314151617181920…next ›last »