All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened How to Survive Infidelity 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse The Problem with Forgiveness Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? 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Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery 4912 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Do We Safely Co-Parent with the Affair Partner When a Child Is Born as a Result of the Affair? 11/12/2020 Searching for Truth: Snooping Won’t Help 11/11/2020 Q&A How Can He Do All of This Good Recovery Work and Still Lie? 10/29/2020 Q&A Does This Program Offer Someone Who Can Sit with Us through the Disclosure Process? 10/29/2020 Q&A What Do You Do When There Is an outside Child the Same Age as Your Own from the Affair? 10/29/2020 Q&A How Do We Deal with Defensiveness? 10/29/2020 Q&A Is It Appropriate to Ask the Wayward Spouse to Take a Polygraph? 10/29/2020 Q&A How Does He Change His Behavior If He Can Not See Himself Doing It? 10/29/2020 Q&A To Save My Marriage, Do I Have to Agree with Him? 10/29/2020 Q&A Am I Being Too Hard or Unreasonable? 10/22/2020 Q&A What Would Be a Good Plan for Me Going Forward? 10/22/2020 Q&A Is This Approach Sufficient for Healing Our Marriage after His 7-Year Affair? 10/22/2020 Q&A Is It Possible for an Addiction of This Severity to Change So Quickly? 10/22/2020 Q&A How Can I Respect My Husband after What He Has Done to Me and Our Family after Multiple Lies, Betrayal, and Affairs? 10/22/2020 Q&A Is There Anything Else I Should Be Doing? 10/22/2020 Q&A Is a Trauma Bond Repairable? 10/22/2020 Q&A Is It Codependent to Stay in a Marriage for the Happiness of Your Children? 10/22/2020 Q&A Can I Get My Husband to Try? 10/22/2020 Q&A How Do I Move Forward in This Situation When All I Feel Is Anger? 10/22/2020 Q&A Will He Ever Go Back to Being the Man I Used to Know? 10/22/2020 Q&A Is It Ever Just Too Much to Get Past? 10/22/2020 Q&A Should I Suggest to My Spouse That He Take Hope for Healing While I’m Taking Harboring Hope or Should He Be the One to Suggest Taking It? 10/22/2020 Q&A What Should I Do for My Sanity Now? 10/22/2020 Q&A Should I File for Divorce? 10/22/2020 Q&A Is There Any Hope for Recovery in Our Situation? 10/22/2020 Q&A Do You Recommend Sharing the Discovery Week of Harboring Hope with My Wayward Spouse? 10/22/2020 Q&A Was it Really Love? 10/22/2020 Q&A How Do I Get Him to Get It? 10/22/2020 Q&A What Do You Do If Your Spouse Refuses to Acknowledge That Emotional Affairs Are Valid? 10/22/2020 Q&A Do I Just Wait for Him to Decide? 10/22/2020 Q&A Have You Ever Heard of Couples Recreating Sexual Encounters between the Wayward Spouse and Affair Partner on Purpose? 10/22/2020 Q&A How Can I Take Control of My Life So That I Can Forgive and Heal? 10/22/2020 Q&A Is Confusion and Messy Emotions Normal? 10/22/2020 Q&A Should We Tell Our Kids about the Infidelity? 10/22/2020 Q&A Why Is It That My Husband Made the Affair Partners Feel Special but Finds It Hard to Make His Own Wife Feel Special? 10/22/2020 Q&A How Can Do We Get past This When She Doesn’t Believe She Had a Physical Affair? 10/22/2020 Q&A Do I Stand by My Husband When He Wants Revenge on the Affair Partner? 10/22/2020 Q&A How Do I Help My Wife Move past the Offense of My Betrayal and into Healing? 10/22/2020 Q&A What Do I Do as the Wayward Spouse When the Truth and Love Exercise Goes Wrong? 10/22/2020 Q&A How Does One Determine What Not to Share with Their Spouse While Remaining Open and Honest? 10/22/2020 Q&A Should My Husband Contact His Affair Partner to Get an Answer Regarding Her Pregnancy Status? 10/22/2020 Q&A Am I Wrong to Ask Her to Stop Social Media Use? 10/22/2020 Q&A What Do You Call This Behavior? 10/22/2020 Q&A Would Leaving the Marriage Now That He Is Sick Seem Heartless and Cruel? 10/22/2020 Q&A What Does Moving Forward a Year Later Look Like? 10/22/2020 Q&A How Can We Deal with Resentments and Move Forward? 10/05/2020 Q&A What Do I Do When I Don't Believe Something That He Consistently Says Is True? 10/05/2020 Q&A Biblically, Can You Remarry Your Ex-Spouse? 10/05/2020 Q&A How Do We Get to the Truth? 10/05/2020 Q&A Was This Limerence or Something More? 10/05/2020 Pages« first‹ previous…131415161718192021…next ›last »