All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? How to Survive Infidelity Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Why Did My Spouse Cheat? 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Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity 4912 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Why Is My Mate Giving Minimal Effort to Recovery? 2/20/2020 Q&A How Could Sex Mean Something with Me When My Mate Still Wanted It with Someone Else? 2/20/2020 Q&A How Do I Know When to Avoid Reminders and When to Push through Them? 2/20/2020 Q&A How Do We Manage Recovery from Both My Affair My Mates Addiction? 2/20/2020 Q&A How Can We Reach Honesty without Creating Triggers? 2/20/2020 Q&A How Do I Move Forward in Forgiving Myself? 2/20/2020 Q&A What Methods Do You Recommend for Restoring Trust? 2/14/2020 Q&A Are My Feelings a Step Backward? 2/14/2020 Q&A Is This Gaslighting? If So, How Do I Respond? 2/14/2020 Q&A Will I Ever Be Able to Overcome the Triggers? 2/14/2020 Q&A What Advice Would You Give around Our Recovery Efforts? 2/14/2020 Q&A What Might Be the Reasons for My Ex-Wife's Relational Pattern? 2/14/2020 Q&A How Do I View D-Day as the Date He Chose Me Rather Than the Day He Was Leaving Me? 2/14/2020 Q&A Have I Done Enough on My Part to Try and Heal ‘Us’? 2/14/2020 Q&A How Can We Prevent Relapse in This Work Situation? 2/14/2020 Q&A Can I Heal If My Husband Is Not Completely Safe? 2/14/2020 Q&A What Is the True Meaning of ‘Being Safe’ for the Injured Spouse? 2/14/2020 Q&A How Do I Set Effective Boundaries as Someone Who Is Conflict Avoidant? 2/14/2020 Q&A Is It Time to Let Go and Move On? 2/14/2020 Q&A What Should I Do about My Wayward Spouse's Regression during Recovery? 2/14/2020 Q&A How Do We Keep the Affair Partner from Pursuing My Spouse? 2/14/2020 Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Finding Community during Recovery? 2/14/2020 Q&A Why Shouldn't the Betrayed Spouse Confront the Affair Partner? 2/14/2020 Q&A How Do I Handle the Fact That My Husband’s ‘Safe Place’ for Porn and Masturbation Has Primarily Been at Work? 2/14/2020 Q&A How Do I Get over My Husband's past Behavior? 2/14/2020 Q&A What Should I Do? 2/14/2020 Q&A Is the Affair a Result of My Mates Addiction Issues? 2/14/2020 Q&A How Do I Protect Myself from Getting an STD If My Husband Has Another Affair Again? 2/14/2020 Q&A What Do We Do After EMS Online? 2/11/2020 Q&A Is It Wise to Refrain from Sex with My Mate in This Situation? 2/11/2020 Q&A How Can I Move on after He Was so Intentional in Hurting Me? 2/11/2020 Q&A How Do I Handle My Anxiety as My Wife Learns How to Share? 2/11/2020 Q&A Is There Any Reason for Me to Contact My Mates Affair Partner? 2/11/2020 Q&A How Do I Handle My Husband's Response to the Truth in Love Exercise? 2/11/2020 Q&A How Can I Get My Wayward Spouse to End the Affair? 2/11/2020 Q&A How Do I Stop Comparing Myself to the Affair Partner? 2/11/2020 Expert Q&A Preview: What Is Hysterical Bonding and Is It a Bad Thing If You Both Want to Stay in Your Marriage? 2/11/2020 Q&A Will I Ever Be Able to See the Time during the Affair as Something Other Than Tainted or Fake? 2/11/2020 Q&A How Do I Know She Believes What I Say? 1/31/2020 Q&A Why Do I Keep Looking for Hope When There's No Reason Too? 1/31/2020 Q&A What Is Hindering My Mate from Showing Empathy? 1/31/2020 Q&A When and How Do We Work through Triggers and Who Pursues Who in Our Marriage? 1/31/2020 Q&A How Do I Confront My Husband? 1/31/2020 Q&A What Recommendations Do You Have for Creating Safety with This Particular Trigger? 1/31/2020 Q&A Should My Mate Be Cautious of the Comparison Questions She Is Asking? 1/31/2020 Q&A How Long Does It Take to Become a New Person in Recovery? 1/31/2020 Q&A Why Did His Guilt over the Affair Partner Win out over Me and Our Marriage? 1/31/2020 Q&A How Do I Get past the Things I Think He Might Have Said to Her? 1/31/2020 Q&A What Is the Best Next Step for Us in Light of This Disclosure? 1/16/2020 Q&A Was I Wrong for Questioning Him or Is There a Better Way I Could’ve Approached This? 1/16/2020 Pages« first‹ previous…212223242526272829…next ›last »