Handling Discovery We call it “D-day” for a reason. These articles will help you understand the process of disclosure and how to keep the process safe. Must Reads more less Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity How to Survive Infidelity Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) The Problem with Forgiveness The Power of Small Groups Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Rebuilding Trust After An Affair 552 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Do We Get to Full Disclosure? 1/23/2019 Q&A How Can I Trust My Mate with Discovery? 1/22/2019 Q&A How Important Is It to Deal with All Betrayals Whether before or after Marriage? 1/16/2019 Q&A When Should a Betrayed Spouse Stop Pushing for Answers to Questions? 1/09/2019 Q&A How Do I Handle New Details That I Remember? 1/03/2019 Q&A How Should the Betrayed Handle Multiple Discovery Days? 12/14/2018 Q&A How Can I Prepare for My Mates Polygraph Results? 12/12/2018 Q&A Should I Insist or Let It Go? 12/12/2018 Q&A What Do You Do If Your Spouse Refuses Full Disclosure? 11/26/2018 Q&A Why Is My Mate Holding Back Details? 11/21/2018 Q&A Should We Disclose to the Affair Partner's Spouse? 11/21/2018 Q&A What Do You Do When the Betrayed Spouse Doesn’t Believe Your Story? 11/07/2018 Q&A How Do I Erase the Intrusive Thoughts? 11/01/2018 Q&A Should I Insist That My Husband Disclose the Affair Partner's Identity? 11/01/2018 Q&A Should We Share Our Story with Our Children? 11/01/2018 Q&A Should I Disclose More Information for the Sake of the Children? 11/01/2018 Q&A Could We Fail If We Don't Reach Ground Zero? 11/01/2018 Q&A Why Won't My Mate Give Me Full Disclosure? 11/01/2018 Q&A Should We Keep Talking about the Affair or Move On? 10/23/2018 Q&A How Do We Move past All the Secrets? 10/23/2018 Q&A Is Understanding the 'Why' Important for Healing? 10/23/2018 Q&A Do I Have Enough Information to Ever Fully Trust Him Again? 10/17/2018 Q&A How Can I Give My Anger a Healthy Outlet? 10/17/2018 Q&A Should We Disclose the Affairs with Our Children? 9/26/2018 Q&A Should I Disclose My Revenge Affair to My Mate? 9/26/2018 Q&A How Can We Make Discovery Safe? 9/26/2018 Q&A Why Is My Mate Reacting This Way? 9/26/2018 Q&A How Can I Differentiate Fact from Fiction? 9/20/2018 Q&A How Do We Get Closure? 9/12/2018 Q&A Is It Dangerous to Examine Photos and Messages from the Affair Partner? 9/12/2018 Q&A How Can We Move Forward in Healing with the Fear That I May Remember More Information about My Affair? 9/12/2018 Q&A Why Did the Affair Partner Try to Tear Our Family Apart? 9/12/2018 Q&A How Can I Handle my Mate’s Questions about the Affair? 8/29/2018 Q&A Will Our Marriage Get Better? 8/29/2018 Q&A How Can I Prove to My Mate I'm Telling the Truth? 8/22/2018 Q&A How Can I Help My Spouse Accept How Long My Affair Lasted? 8/22/2018 Q&A What Does It Look like for the Wayward Spouse to Help the Injured Spouse through Recovery? 8/22/2018 Q&A How Do We Protect Our Children During Recovery? 8/15/2018 Q&A What Are Your Thoughts on Communicating with the Affair Partners Spouse? 8/15/2018 Q&A How Do I Approach My Mate about My Suspicion of an Affair? 8/01/2018 Q&A How Much Information Should I Have about the Affair? 7/11/2018 Q&A Do You Think It Is Important to Confess Infidelity to Parents? 7/06/2018 Q&A Could a Polygraph Help Us Move Forward in Our Healing? 6/27/2018 Q&A What Advice Do You Have for the Betrayed Moving through Discovery? 6/27/2018 Q&A Can You Give Us Guidance on Reaching Full Disclosure? 6/15/2018 Q&A How Do I Trust That I Truly Have All the Information? 6/15/2018 Q&A My Betrayed Husband Won't Believe Me. How Can We Reach Full Disclosure? 6/08/2018 Q&A Is It Possible That He Is Being Truthful? 6/07/2018 Q&A My Mate Doesn't Believe I've Disclosed Everything, What Should I Do? 5/23/2018 Q&A Should I Tell My Co-Worker about Her Husband’s Affair? 5/18/2018 Pages« first‹ previous123456789…next ›last »
