Handling Discovery We call it “D-day” for a reason. These articles will help you understand the process of disclosure and how to keep the process safe. Must Reads more less How to Survive Infidelity Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity The Problem with Forgiveness Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Does Time Heal All Wounds? 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A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) 559 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Why Is the Timeline of the Affair so Important to Me? 2/13/2019 Q&A How Do We Get to a Safe Place with Details I Can't Remember? 2/06/2019 Q&A Why Does My Mate Say He Can't Remember Details of the Affair? 1/30/2019 Q&A Is His Explanation Probable? 1/28/2019 Q&A Should I Disclose to the Affair Partner's Spouse? 1/23/2019 Q&A How Do I Apply Boundaries and Reconcile? 1/23/2019 Q&A How Can I Make Disclosure Safe? 1/23/2019 Q&A How Do We Get to Full Disclosure? 1/23/2019 Q&A How Can I Trust My Mate with Discovery? 1/22/2019 Q&A How Important Is It to Deal with All Betrayals Whether before or after Marriage? 1/16/2019 Q&A When Should a Betrayed Spouse Stop Pushing for Answers to Questions? 1/09/2019 Q&A How Do I Handle New Details That I Remember? 1/03/2019 Q&A How Should the Betrayed Handle Multiple Discovery Days? 12/14/2018 Q&A How Can I Prepare for My Mates Polygraph Results? 12/12/2018 Q&A Should I Insist or Let It Go? 12/12/2018 Q&A What Do You Do If Your Spouse Refuses Full Disclosure? 11/26/2018 Q&A Why Is My Mate Holding Back Details? 11/21/2018 Q&A Should We Disclose to the Affair Partner's Spouse? 11/21/2018 Q&A What Do You Do When the Betrayed Spouse Doesn’t Believe Your Story? 11/07/2018 Q&A How Do I Erase the Intrusive Thoughts? 11/01/2018 Q&A Should I Insist That My Husband Disclose the Affair Partner's Identity? 11/01/2018 Q&A Should We Share Our Story with Our Children? 11/01/2018 Q&A Should I Disclose More Information for the Sake of the Children? 11/01/2018 Q&A Could We Fail If We Don't Reach Ground Zero? 11/01/2018 Q&A Why Won't My Mate Give Me Full Disclosure? 11/01/2018 Q&A Should We Keep Talking about the Affair or Move On? 10/23/2018 Q&A How Do We Move past All the Secrets? 10/23/2018 Q&A Is Understanding the 'Why' Important for Healing? 10/23/2018 Q&A Do I Have Enough Information to Ever Fully Trust Him Again? 10/17/2018 Q&A How Can I Give My Anger a Healthy Outlet? 10/17/2018 Q&A Should We Disclose the Affairs with Our Children? 9/26/2018 Q&A Should I Disclose My Revenge Affair to My Mate? 9/26/2018 Q&A How Can We Make Discovery Safe? 9/26/2018 Q&A Why Is My Mate Reacting This Way? 9/26/2018 Q&A How Can I Differentiate Fact from Fiction? 9/20/2018 Q&A How Do We Get Closure? 9/12/2018 Q&A Is It Dangerous to Examine Photos and Messages from the Affair Partner? 9/12/2018 Q&A How Can We Move Forward in Healing with the Fear That I May Remember More Information about My Affair? 9/12/2018 Q&A Why Did the Affair Partner Try to Tear Our Family Apart? 9/12/2018 Q&A How Can I Handle my Mate’s Questions about the Affair? 8/29/2018 Q&A Will Our Marriage Get Better? 8/29/2018 Q&A How Can I Prove to My Mate I'm Telling the Truth? 8/22/2018 Q&A How Can I Help My Spouse Accept How Long My Affair Lasted? 8/22/2018 Q&A What Does It Look like for the Wayward Spouse to Help the Injured Spouse through Recovery? 8/22/2018 Q&A How Do We Protect Our Children During Recovery? 8/15/2018 Q&A What Are Your Thoughts on Communicating with the Affair Partners Spouse? 8/15/2018 Q&A How Do I Approach My Mate about My Suspicion of an Affair? 8/01/2018 Q&A How Much Information Should I Have about the Affair? 7/11/2018 Q&A Do You Think It Is Important to Confess Infidelity to Parents? 7/06/2018 Q&A Could a Polygraph Help Us Move Forward in Our Healing? 6/27/2018 Pages« first‹ previous123456789…next ›last »
