Handling Discovery

We call it “D-day” for a reason. These articles will help you understand the process of disclosure and how to keep the process safe.

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Video icon Q&A How Can We Move Forward in Healing with the Fear That I May Remember More Information about My Affair?
Video icon Q&A Why Did the Affair Partner Try to Tear Our Family Apart?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Handle my Mate’s Questions about the Affair?
Video icon Q&A Will Our Marriage Get Better?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Prove to My Mate I'm Telling the Truth?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Help My Spouse Accept How Long My Affair Lasted?
Video icon Q&A What Does It Look like for the Wayward Spouse to Help the Injured Spouse through Recovery?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Protect Our Children During Recovery?
Video icon Q&A What Are Your Thoughts on Communicating with the Affair Partners Spouse?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Approach My Mate about My Suspicion of an Affair?
Video icon Q&A How Much Information Should I Have about the Affair?
Video icon Q&A Do You Think It Is Important to Confess Infidelity to Parents?
Video icon Q&A Could a Polygraph Help Us Move Forward in Our Healing?
Video icon Q&A What Advice Do You Have for the Betrayed Moving through Discovery?
Video icon Q&A Can You Give Us Guidance on Reaching Full Disclosure?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Trust That I Truly Have All the Information?
Video icon Q&A My Betrayed Husband Won't Believe Me. How Can We Reach Full Disclosure?
Video icon Q&A Is It Possible That He Is Being Truthful?
Video icon Q&A My Mate Doesn't Believe I've Disclosed Everything, What Should I Do?
Video icon Q&A Should I Tell My Co-Worker about Her Husband’s Affair?
Video icon Q&A Could He Be Telling the Truth?
Video icon Q&A What Do I Do about My Mother-In-Law?
Video icon Q&A Why Do I Want to Know More?
Video icon Q&A How Long Can This Process Take and What, If Anything, Should I Be Doing Differently?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Heal from All of the Secrets My Husband Kept from Me?
Video icon Q&A Should I Tell My Co-Worker about Her Husband’s Affair?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Reach Full Disclosure While Protecting Myself from Intrusive Thoughts?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Go on without Full Disclosure?
Video icon Q&A Should We Tell Our Parents about the Infidelity?
Video icon Q&A What Should I Do If My Unfaithful Spouse Won't Share the Whole Story?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Appropriately Describe What Is Happening to My Teenage Children?
Video icon Q&A How Should I Handle This Relapse?
Video icon Q&A How Do People Heal from Betrayal?
Video icon Q&A What Questions Can I Ask That Won't Lead to Intrusive Thoughts?
Video icon Q&A Can Flooding Present Itself Physically?
Video icon Q&A Is It Normal for Sexual Interactions to Change after Discovery?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Address the Affair without It Being so Negative?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Overcome the Deceit?
Video icon Q&A What’s the Best Way to Process with My Mate?
Video icon Q&A Should I Reveal My Spouse's Affair?
Video icon Q&A How Can We Maintain Safety While Navigating Discovery?
Video icon Q&A How Can We Heal without a Shared History?
Video icon Q&A Who Do We Tell about the Affair?
Video icon Q&A Can You Help Me Understand What My Mate Was Thinking?
Video icon Q&A How Much Disclosure Is Considered 'Full Disclosure'?
Video icon Q&A Do I Force Him to Get Paternity Test?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Cope with the Deception?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Handle Forgiveness When the AP Is a Family Member?
Video icon Q&A Does the Betrayed Spouse Have to Know Every Affair in Order to Heal the Marriage?
Video icon Q&A Would a Lie Detector Test Help or Hurt?