Q&A What Exactly Do I Grieve and Do I Have to Grieve Before I Can Forgive?
10/02/2025
Q&A How Can I Forgive the Affair Partner When She Is Still Impacting My Life So Negatively?
6/18/2025
Q&A How Do I Stop Hating the Affair Partner?
5/28/2025
Q&A Can I Forgive My Husband for Abandonment?
4/01/2025
Q&A What Does Making Restitution Look Like in a Marriage after an Affair?
1/30/2024
Q&A How Do I Get over the Fact He Wanted to Walk Out on Us?
1/30/2024
Q&A What If the Only Way I Can Heal Is without Horizontal Forgiveness?
4/12/2023
Q&A How Do I Forgive Myself for Marrying Someone While Choosing to Essentially Re-Marry Him?
8/03/2022
Q&A Should My Unfaithful Spouse Make a Symbolic Sacrifice to Help My Healing?
11/04/2021
Q&A How Should I Answer Him When He Says I Should Forgive Him like the Bible Says to Forgive?
4/29/2021
Q&A Why Can't I Forgive One of the Multiple Affairs?
1/20/2021
Q&A Must I Be Completely Finished with the Grieving Task before I Can Move to Forgiveness?
11/18/2020
Q&A How Can I Take Control of My Life So That I Can Forgive and Heal?
10/22/2020
Q&A Is It Important for Me to Actually Tell Him That I Have Forgiven Him?
8/06/2020
Q&A How Do I Cope, Accept, and Reconcile with the Reckless Choice My Husband Made?
8/06/2020
Q&A Do You Have Any Suggestions on Forgiving Someone You Can't Work through Things With?
6/19/2020
Q&A Is It Possible to Forgive a Person but Not Forgive Their Actions?
6/19/2020
Q&A Is It Possible or Even Wise to Forgive My Spouse?
6/03/2020
Q&A How Do I Move Forward in Forgiving Myself?
2/20/2020
Q&A Will I Ever Be Able to See the Time during the Affair as Something Other Than Tainted or Fake?
2/11/2020
Q&A How Do I Get past the Things I Think He Might Have Said to Her?
1/31/2020
Q&A How Can I Ever Desire My Mate When I Can't Forget What Happened?
11/22/2019
Q&A Can We Ever Get past This If I Know That I Don't Want to Forgive My Mate?
8/06/2019
Q&A What Are Your Thoughts about My Behavior?
7/03/2019
Q&A Is There a Chance for Forgiveness or Reconciliation?
6/11/2019
Q&A How Do I Handle the Injustice of It All?
6/05/2019
Q&A Is There a Difference between Just Getting over What Happened and Forgiveness?
5/21/2019
Q&A Does Forgiveness Give My Mate a Free Pass?
3/27/2019
Q&A How Do I Forgive the Unforgivable?
3/27/2019
Q&A Why Am I so Concerned About the Affair Partner?
3/20/2019
Q&A How Do I Forgive Myself for Choosing to Stay?
1/09/2019
Q&A Is This Normal or Is This a Sign of Unforgiveness?
12/12/2018
Q&A How Do We Navigate Forgiveness with outside Parties?
11/07/2018
Q&A How Do We Move past All the Secrets?
10/23/2018
Q&A How Do I Forgive What My Mate Has Done?
10/10/2018
Q&A How Do We Get Closure?
9/12/2018
Q&A What Does Desire for Reconciliation Look Like?
9/12/2018
Q&A Is There Hope for Us?
8/01/2018
Q&A How Can We Move past Resentments and Heal Our Marriage?
7/16/2018
Q&A How Do I Move past the Feelings of Rage I Have Towards the Affair Partner?
7/11/2018
Q&A What Does Forgiveness Look like after Multiple Relapses?
6/07/2018
Q&A How Can I Rebuild Trust and Become Vulnerable Again?
6/06/2018
Q&A Will My Formerly Wayward Spouse Ever Feel Special to Me Again?
5/09/2018
Q&A How Do I Learn to Love My Spouse Again?
5/07/2018
Q&A What's Wrong with Me?
4/05/2018
Q&A How Do I Move past What My Mate Said to the Affair Partner?
4/05/2018
Q&A Do You Have Suggestions for Handling the Transgressions That Occur before D-Day and After?
3/28/2018
Q&A How Do I Let Go of the Need to Make My Husband Pay for What He Did?
3/28/2018
Q&A How Do I, as the Betrayed, Learn to Love My Mate Again?
1/10/2018
Q&A Should I Give My Mate Another Chance?
1/10/2018