How to Forgive

Everyone’s recovery looks different, but one consistent factor that must occur is forgiveness. Read the articles in this section to understand the process of forgiveness and to find tools for moving forward.

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Video icon Q&A My Mate's Family Also Betrayed Me, How Do We Reconcile?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Handle Forgiveness When the AP Is a Family Member?
Video icon Q&A Do You Think I Am Wise to Pursue Forgiveness?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Know If I’ve Forgiven?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Forgive the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Forgive the AP Who Was Also a Close Friend?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Show Her We Can Recover from This?
Video icon Q&A Why Does It Seem That It Is Getting Harder to Overcome the Betrayal?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Show Acceptance and What Does It Look Like?
Video icon Q&A How Will I Know I Have Forgiven Both My Husband and the AP?
Video icon Q&A Why Can't I Get over the Affair Even Though My Husband Is Doing All the Work to Rebuild?
Video icon Q&A Should There Be Closure with the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A Is It Okay to Let the Affair Partner Know That I Forgive Her?
Video icon Q&A How Can We Overcome past Promises of Leaving after Betrayal?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Handle My Bitterness and Anger Coming Back after Giving Birth?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Move Safely from Here in the Presence of a Restraining Order?
Video icon Q&A Should We Make Amends by Contacting Former Affair Partners and Spouses?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Heal from the Dishonor of His Sharing My Secrets with Her?
Video icon Q&A Forgiveness and Infidelity
Video icon Q&A How Do I Stay in the Process of Forgiveness?
Video icon Q&A Can You Speak to Ambivalence on Behalf of the Betrayed Spouse?
Video icon Q&A Am I Dealing with Accusatory Suffering?
Video icon Q&A When Does a Betrayed Spouse Find Sexual Desire for Their Mate Again?
Video icon Q&A Should We Move to Get Away from the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Achieve Forgiveness?
Video icon Q&A How Common are Affairs?
Video icon Q&A Will Contacting the Affair Partner Help Me Forgive?
Video icon Q&A How Will I Know When I've Completely Forgiven Him?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Get My Husband to Stop Focusing on My Past So He Will Work on His Addiction?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Combat My Feelings toward the Unremorseful Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A Can my Christian Witness be Valid Without Conveying Forgiveness?
Video icon Q&A Is Forgiveness my Issue?
Video icon Q&A How can I Get Over What Bill W. Founder of AA, did to His Wife?
Video icon Q&A How Can We Get Past Our Difference of Opinion With Reconciliation and Forgiveness?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Handle Being Triggered by the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Combat My Bitterness Towards My Wife and Her Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A How am I Supposed to be the Best Husband I Can be After She Cheated?
Video icon Q&A Is there Any Hope for Getting Over the Pain and Anger of Betrayal?
Video icon Q&A Can You Suggest Any Free Programs to Help My Spouse?
Video icon Q&A Given the Length of Trickle Truth, Should I Retake the Harboring Hope Group?
Video icon Q&A Are We Losing Our Vigilance in Recovery?
Video icon Q&A Did I Forgive Too Soon?
Video icon Q&A How Many Times Should I Give Him Another Chance?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Show True Empathy for My Wife?
Video icon Q&A How do I Forgive a Lifetime of Infidelity?
Video icon Q&A How did My Cycle of Grace Become My Cycle of Failure?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Forgive Without Reconciliation?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Face This Challenge With My Father-in-Law?
Video icon Q&A What Does True Grief Look Like for a Betrayed Spouse?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Settle These Questions in My Mind?