Q&A Is It Unreasonable for Me To Need Fundamental Change To Feel Safe?
2/26/2026
Q&A Could You Provide Suggestion on How to Predict & Repair Intrusive Thoughts When We Are Engaging in Sex?
8/28/2025
Q&A How Can She Support the ED That Came from Her Betrayal, Instead of Waiting for It to Fix Itself?
5/06/2025
Q&A How Do I Heal From the Shame I’m Feeling as a Result of My Affair?
10/09/2024
Q&A How Do I Shut Down the Intrusive Thoughts of My Husband With the Affair Partners That Have Become Erotic to Me?
9/18/2024
Q&A How Do I Stop the Comparisons, Build Confidence, and Get Better at Sex Without Feeling Like I’m Trying to Be Like the Affair Partner?
6/19/2024
Q&A How Do I Know When My Husband is Safe Again?
5/07/2024
Q&A How Can We Overcome Arousal Issues Resulting From Disclosure?
4/03/2024
Q&A Is My Husband’s Erectile Dysfunction Due to His Affair?
1/30/2024
Q&A Given That Addiction Is Part of His Personality with the Alcohol Abuse, Is He Also a Sex Addict? Is There Any Chance He Might Get Better with DBT Therapy?
1/09/2024
Q&A Could My Husband Be a Sex Addict?
1/09/2024
Q&A Can You Give Me Input on How My Mate Justified Their Actions?
1/09/2024
Q&A At This Point I Just Rather Not Have Sex at All. Is There Something That I Can Do to Change This?
8/15/2023
Q&A How Do I Let Go of What Happened and Fully Re-Engage with My Mate?
5/19/2023
Q&A Does My Husband’s Sexual Performance Indicate a Serious Issue?
3/17/2023
Q&A Does My Mate Have a Sexual Addiction?
3/17/2023
Q&A How Do You Handle Having OCD and a Sexual Addiction at the Same Time?
1/11/2023
Q&A Is It Possible for Someone to Quit Porn Cold Turkey?
12/06/2022
Q&A Are These Reoccurring Mental Images of Porn Normal?
11/03/2022
Q&A Will I Be Able to Find My Wife Sexually Attractive Again or Have I Broken My Brain?
10/13/2022
Q&A How Do We Heal from Sexual Abuse in Our Marriage?
8/26/2022
Q&A How Do I Deal With My Repulsion by the Idea of Sex Post Betrayal?
8/03/2022
Q&A How Can I Be Comfortable Being Intimate Again?
6/14/2022
Q&A Why Can’t I Give My Spouse Full Disclosure?
4/20/2022
Q&A How do I Heal?
2/17/2022
Q&A Is It Wrong to Feel a Sense of a Sexual Revolution, after His Affair?
2/02/2022
Q&A Should We Abstain from Sex at This Point in Our Recovery?
12/17/2021
Q&A What Progressional Steps Are Most Helpful in Recovery from Pornography Addiction and Extramarital Affairs?
9/08/2021
Q&A What Is the Role of Dopamine in Marital Sex?
9/08/2021
Q&A How Do I Get Over the Fact That My Wife Gave Her Affair Partner More Intense and Passionate Sex Than She Has Ever Given Me?
6/16/2021
Q&A How Do I Go Back to Normal Sexual Behavior with My Spouse When My Spouse Told Me the Affair Partner Was Better Than Me in Bed and Also Had a Bigger Male Anatomy?
4/29/2021
Q&A Should I Ask My Husband to Take the Sex Addiction Survey Test Again with Me Assisting?
4/22/2021
Q&A Should Sex Addicts Completely Stay Away from Sex, Including Healthy Sex with Their Wives, to Recover?
1/14/2021
Q&A How Probable It Is That He Can Stop Cheating and Have a Normal Sex Life?
12/17/2020
Q&A Is It Common to Have Occasional Difficulties with Physical Intimacy, Impotence, or Performance Issues after an Affair?
12/17/2020
Q&A How Do We Restore Our Sexual Intimacy?
12/17/2020
Q&A Could This Be Sex Addiction and How Is That Different for Recovery?
11/18/2020
Q&A Is It Possible for an Addiction of This Severity to Change So Quickly?
10/22/2020
Q&A Have You Ever Heard of Couples Recreating Sexual Encounters between the Wayward Spouse and Affair Partner on Purpose?
10/22/2020
Q&A How Am I Supposed to Address This Barrier More Than I Already Have?
8/18/2020
Q&A How Do We Recover When There Was a Sexual Assault?
8/07/2020
Q&A How Can My Spouse and I Resume Having and Acting on the Desire for Sexual Intimacy in Our Marriage?
8/06/2020
Q&A Does an Emotional Affair Affect Your Sex Life?
7/09/2020
Q&A Is This Healthy or Are My Concerns Valid?
6/09/2020
Q&A How Do the Processes for Recovery and Relapse Prevention Differ for Sex Addicts?
5/19/2020
Q&A How Can We Reclaim This Intimate Part of Our Sexuality?
3/26/2020
Q&A How Is Recovery Different If the Porn Addiction Is Same Sex?
3/16/2020
Q&A How Do We Handle My Husband's Newfound, Seemingly Irresistible, Fetish?
2/20/2020
Q&A How Do I Protect Myself from Getting an STD If My Husband Has Another Affair Again?
2/14/2020
Q&A Is It Wise to Refrain from Sex with My Mate in This Situation?
2/11/2020