Q&A What Do I Look for to Know the Affair Isn’t Still Happening? 4/02/2025
Q&A How Should I Respond When He Shares Lies with Me, Especially If I Perceive He Is Sugar-Coating the Truth? 4/01/2025
Q&A Can I Forgive My Husband for Abandonment? 4/01/2025
Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Journaling as a Betrayed Spouse? 3/26/2025
Q&A Why Can’t My Husband See the Affair Partner Through a Negative Lens? 2/25/2025
Q&A Does It Matter Who Ended the Affair? 2/25/2025
Q&A Can the Wayward Spouse Really Have No Triggers? 2/18/2025
Q&A Please Help Me Understand What My Reality Is as We Try to Recover from This. 2/11/2025
Q&A How Do I Tell the Wayward Spouse I Need More Discussion to Heal and Process? 2/11/2025
Q&A Why Has My Spouse Refused to Cut Ties with His High School Sweetheart? 2/04/2025
Q&A Is It Unrealistic to Expect Raw Emotion from My Unfaithful Wife? 2/04/2025
Q&A How Do I Find Closure When the Affair Partner Is a Close Family Friend? 1/14/2025
Q&A What Do You Do If the Wayward Spouse Shows No Remorse, Empathy, or Compassion? 1/14/2025
Q&A How Important Is Attunement When Recovering from an Affair? 1/08/2025
Q&A How Can I Rebuild Trust When His Words Still Feel Scripted and Devoid of Genuine Empathy? 12/17/2024
Q&A What If My Husband Doesn’t Want to Change? 12/03/2024
Q&A How Do I Feel Safe Knowing That the Worst Pain I Have Ever Felt Could Possibly Happen Again? 12/03/2024
Q&A Will She Ever Tell the Truth Without Being Backed Into a Corner? 11/26/2024
Q&A How Do I Respond If I Don’t Believe My Spouse? 11/12/2024
Q&A Could My Husband’s Actions Be Early Signs of Relapse? 10/30/2024
Q&A How Do I Support My Partner and Accept That I Can’t Control Their Recovery Journey? 10/30/2024
Q&A How Do I Help My Unfaithful Husband as He Seems to Be So Buried in Shame, Self-Loathing, and a Huge Sense of Worthlessness? 10/22/2024
Q&A How Do I Come to Terms With My New Reality as a Betrayed Spouse? 10/22/2024
Q&A Is It Normal for Family to Feel Disappointed at Us for Staying With the Wayward Spouse? 10/01/2024
Q&A Why Does My Husband (Wayward) Not Want to Reconnect With Me (Betrayed) Physically? 10/01/2024
Q&A Am I a Fool for Being Vulnerable With My Mate? 10/01/2024
Q&A How Do I Get the Lying and the Porn Use by My Husband to Stop? 9/18/2024
Q&A How Do I Feel Special Again After I Have Lost So Much Including Places That Were Just Ours? 9/18/2024
Q&A How Do I Replace What I Feel With What I Know, if I Don’t Know What the Truth Is? 9/18/2024
Q&A How Do I Shut Down the Intrusive Thoughts of My Husband With the Affair Partners That Have Become Erotic to Me? 9/18/2024
Q&A How Can I Get These Images Out of My Mind and Get back to Just Being With My Husband? 9/18/2024
Q&A Are We at the End of the Road? 8/20/2024
Q&A How Do I Get Past or Heal From the Hurtful Things My Husband Said About Me to His Affair Partners? 8/20/2024
Q&A Would Viewing Surveillance Footage of My Husband’s Affair Be Helpful? 8/14/2024
Q&A How Do I Get over Feeling Disgust With My Partner Over Who He Chose to Have an Affair With? 8/06/2024
Q&A How Do I Truly Know if My Wayward Spouse Has Changed? 8/06/2024
Q&A What Do I Do When My Wayward Spouse Refuses to Meet My Emotional Needs? 8/06/2024
Q&A How Can I Better Understand the Behaviors of My Wayward Spouse? 7/31/2024
Q&A How Can I Help My Wayward Spouse Heal From Betrayal Trauma From a Prior Relationship? 7/31/2024
Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Polygraphs, Anxiety Induced False Positives, and Full Disclosure During Recovery? 7/26/2024
Q&A How Can I Believe My Mate When They Say the Affair Is Over? 7/26/2024
Q&A As the Betrayed, Should I Focus on Avoiding the Affair Partner? 7/10/2024
Q&A How Can We Reconnect if I Don’t Know What Happened? 7/10/2024
Q&A Am I Asking for Too Much Control or Is the Wayward Spouse Being Unreasonable With a Lack of Boundaries? 7/10/2024
Q&A Do I Need to Allow the Wayward Spouse to Have More Time in the Recovery Process? 7/10/2024
Q&A Can You Please Address the Problem of Grieving Memories Like Childbirth Under the Shadow of an Affair? 6/19/2024
Q&A How Do I Stop the Comparisons, Build Confidence, and Get Better at Sex Without Feeling Like I’m Trying to Be Like the Affair Partner? 6/19/2024
Q&A What Is the Best Way to Build Trust Around My Husband’s Actions and My Triggers? 6/13/2024
Q&A Is It Okay for the Unfaithful to Masturbate While I, the Betrayed, Can’t Be Intimate Right Now Because of Lack of Emotional Connection and a Lot of Hurt? 6/13/2024
Q&A Will I Ever Accept His Reasons for the Affairs? 6/13/2024
