Q&A How Do I Stop the Cycle of Self-Sabotage and Regain My Identity? 4/01/2026
Q&A How Does an Accountability Partnership Work? 2/04/2026
Q&A What Advice Would You Give to a Couple Who Feels Safe Now and for the Future, but Is Struggling with ‘Getting Right’ with past Infidelities and Traumas? 10/02/2025
Q&A How Will I Ever Feel Safe with Someone Who Has No Control over Themselves? 8/28/2025
Q&A What Makes Someone Vulnerable to a Previous Romantic Partner? 8/21/2025
Q&A Am I Asking Too Much in Regards to Relapse Prevention from My Husband? 8/06/2025
Q&A After a Polygraph Is Done to Confirm the Couple Is at Ground Zero, What Should Each Partner Expect from the Other Going Forward? 7/23/2025
Q&A How Do You Recommend We Handle Interactions with the Affair Partner? 7/23/2025
Q&A Are My Requests for Relapse Prevention Measures Unreasonable? 7/21/2025
Q&A Am I Wrong for Wanting My Husband to Completely Separate from Anyone Complicit in His Affair? 6/18/2025
Q&A What Are You Thoughts on Using Parental Control Apps to Create Safety and Rebuild Trust? 5/06/2025
Q&A What Do I Look for to Know the Affair Isn’t Still Happening? 4/02/2025
Q&A Why Can’t My Husband See the Affair Partner Through a Negative Lens? 2/25/2025
Q&A How Do We Create Safety When My Husband Had an Emotional Affair with a Coworker for Approximately 7 Years? 2/11/2025
Q&A Why Has My Spouse Refused to Cut Ties with His High School Sweetheart? 2/04/2025
Q&A Is the Connection I Have with My First Love (Not My Husband) Normal? 1/08/2025
Q&A How Do I Feel Safe Knowing That the Worst Pain I Have Ever Felt Could Possibly Happen Again? 12/03/2024
Q&A How Do I Respond If I Don’t Believe My Spouse? 11/12/2024
Q&A Could My Husband’s Actions Be Early Signs of Relapse? 10/30/2024
Q&A How Do I Get the Lying and the Porn Use by My Husband to Stop? 9/18/2024
Q&A Am I Asking for Too Much Control or Is the Wayward Spouse Being Unreasonable With a Lack of Boundaries? 7/10/2024
Q&A How Do I Do Everything Right at Every Moment for My Wife? 4/25/2024
Q&A Is It Ok for My Husband to Meet With His Affair Partner? 1/09/2024
Q&A How Do I Tell My Unfaithful Spouse I Need Access to His Devices to Feel Safe? 1/09/2024
Q&A Can You Clarify What It Looks Like for Someone to Go into the Pre-contemplative and Contemplative Stage after a Relapse? 1/09/2024
Q&A What Is the Best Way to Keep Boundaries in a Situation Where the Affair Happens in a Tight Knit Community? 11/28/2023
Q&A How Do I Deal With My Sexual Addiction When Everything I’ve Tried Isn’t Working? 10/23/2023
Q&A Are the Requests I’m Making to Feel Safe Unreasonable? 10/23/2023
Q&A Is It Reasonable for Me to Feel Unsafe When My Wife Is around the Affair Partner without Me? 10/23/2023
Q&A Do I Have the Right to Know What My Spouse Is Doing to Monitor Me? 9/12/2023
Q&A What Is the Best Way to Set Boundaries in the Workplace? 8/15/2023
Q&A Should My Husband Contact the Affair Partner to Break Things off If They Haven’t Had Contact in Almost a Year? 6/29/2023
Q&A Are Any Lasting Feelings for the Affair Partner Permitted? 5/19/2023
Q&A If There Is a Future for Our Marriage, Would You See the Journey to Be Any Different than Normal? 5/19/2023
Q&A Is It Necessary for Him to Be Proactive or Should I Be Happy He’s Doing What I Ask of Him? 4/12/2023
Q&A How Do We Handle Workplace Triggers in Recovery? 4/12/2023
Q&A What Action Do You Recommend If My Mates Behavior Doesn’t Change? 3/02/2023
Q&A Are My Boundaries for My Spouse Unreasonable? 1/11/2023
Q&A How Can My Spouse Work with the Affair Partner and Still Be Okay? 12/06/2022
Q&A Is It Possible for Someone to Quit Porn Cold Turkey? 12/06/2022
Q&A How Do I Keep My Boundaries Strong in a Place of Leadership? 7/07/2022
Q&A What Do I Do If My Spouse Works with Their Affair Partner? 5/24/2022
Q&A Is It OK for the Wayward Spouse to Keep in Touch with Affair Partners from the past That Happened Years before Us? 4/20/2022
Q&A How Do I Move Forward Knowing That He Already Has The Mindset That This Could Happen Again? 4/08/2022
Q&A How Do We Move Forward after Several Relapses? 4/06/2022
Q&A Do You Agree It’s Necessary to Re-Establish No Contact? 2/17/2022
Q&A Should a Wayward Spouse Be Allowed to Have Friends of the Opposite Gender? 2/17/2022
Q&A Is It Common for the Wayward Spouse to Go Back to the Affair Partner? 10/07/2021
Q&A Will I Ever Know If My Spouse Is No Longer Emotionally Attached to His Affair Partner? 8/17/2021
Q&A How Do My Spouse and I Get On the Same Level When It Comes to Appropriate Communication to His Affair Partner about Their Daughter? 8/02/2021
