All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less How to Survive Infidelity How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened The Power of Small Groups Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair The Problem with Forgiveness Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? 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Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 4912 Resources Type Title Posted Hope Rising Conference 2021 Announcement: Words of Wisdom from Keynote Speaker Shauna Shanks 5/19/2021 Q&A How Can We Ever Build Trust? 5/12/2021 Q&A Should I Ask My Wife to Take Another Polygraph? 5/12/2021 Q&A Is It Wrong to Expect My Husband to Stop Contact with an Affair Partner Who Is Close to the Family and My Best Friend? 5/12/2021 Q&A Is It Too Soon to Begin Having Sex Again? 4/29/2021 Q&A What Are Your Thoughts about a Post Infidelity Contract? 4/29/2021 Q&A Is There a Seventh Type of Affair? 4/29/2021 Q&A How on Earth Do I Enforce Boundaries during This Time without Pushing Her Back to the Affair Partner? 4/29/2021 Q&A How Do I Decide What to Do? 4/29/2021 Q&A What Advice Do You Have For Telling My Spouse That I Know About Their Affair and Who the Affair Partner Is? 4/29/2021 Q&A How Do I Get Him to See My Perspective? 4/29/2021 Q&A Is It Possible That I’ll Have a Change of Heart Some Time Down the Road? 4/29/2021 Q&A How Do I Cast Down My Thoughts of Beating Up My Wife’s Affair Partner? 4/29/2021 Q&A Should I Be Alarmed with This Feeling Of Disgust and Will It Ever Go Away? 4/29/2021 Q&A How Do I Know He's Really Choosing Me? 4/29/2021 Q&A Is This Typical or Is My Husband Emotionally Immature? 4/29/2021 Q&A What Resources, Books, Videos or Programs Would You Suggest For Grown Children Who Just Found Out about Their Father's Infidelity? 4/29/2021 Q&A How Should I Answer Him When He Says I Should Forgive Him like the Bible Says to Forgive? 4/29/2021 Q&A How Do I Respect My Husband Again or Decide If I Really Want to Stay Knowing We May Never Be Fully Healed? 4/29/2021 Q&A Is It Better to Ignore Him When He Is Trying to Reach Out and Connect or Should I Respond in Kind to Try to Maintain the Peace? 4/29/2021 Q&A Why Should I Believe My Husband Is Really Committed to Me When He Would Go Out of His Way for the Affair Partner, but Not for Me? 4/29/2021 Q&A How Do I Go Back to Normal Sexual Behavior with My Spouse When My Spouse Told Me the Affair Partner Was Better Than Me in Bed and Also Had a Bigger Male Anatomy? 4/29/2021 Q&A How Do I Re-Engage with Family, Friends, And Normal Life? 4/29/2021 Q&A Can You Explain the Similarities and Differences between Confessing, Acknowledgement and Accountability? 4/29/2021 Q&A How Does the Addition of Domestic Violence Influence Affair Recovery? 4/29/2021 Q&A Does Alcohol Really Play That Much of a Part in Infidelity? 4/29/2021 Q&A How Do I Deal with His Inability to Talk about Our Marriage? 4/29/2021 Q&A Is This the Healthiest Advice or Do I Need to Seek Different Therapist for Individual Counseling? 4/22/2021 Q&A Should I Ask My Husband to Take the Sex Addiction Survey Test Again with Me Assisting? 4/22/2021 Q&A Can You Explain Why the Recovery Rate Is Lower For Infidelity Early in Marriage? 4/22/2021 Q&A What Leads Me to Objectifying Women? 4/22/2021 Q&A How Do I Navigate Such Extreme Triggers from Discovery? 4/22/2021 Q&A Should I Continue In My Own Healing In the Hopes She Will Rejoin? 4/13/2021 Q&A How Could My Wife Be Having an Affair When We Were Trying to Get Pregnant? 4/13/2021 Q&A What Can I or Should I Do With the Thoughts in My Head? 4/13/2021 Q&A It Seems My Husband Is More Worried About His Self-Image Than Actually Healing, What Do I Do? 4/13/2021 Q&A Is He ‘Cured’ and Am I Now Safe? 4/13/2021 Q&A Do You Classify This as a Sexual Addiction or Is This a Different Type of Affair? 4/13/2021 Q&A What Is the Definition of an Emotional Affair? 4/13/2021 Q&A What Else Can I Do, Other Than Be Honest and Give Her Space? 4/13/2021 Travel Plan: How to Create One and Why They're Worthwhile 3/31/2021 Q&A Should We Try to Find New Therapist? 3/25/2021 Q&A How Do I Balance Guarding My Heart with Building Intimacy in EMS Online When My Mate Is Still Engaging His Affair Partner? 3/25/2021 Q&A What Do You Do If You Have a Trigger and It Makes You Think of a New Detail? 3/25/2021 Q&A Am I Being Manipulated Again or Does He Truly Feel This Way? 3/25/2021 A Discussion on Remorse, Trauma and Extreme Suffering 3/24/2021 Q&A What Would You Recommend for Someone Who Feels like Their Main Support Group Is Coming to a Close When the Process Is Just Beginning? 3/22/2021 Q&A Am I Wasting My Time Hoping He Can Truly Change? 3/22/2021 Q&A How do I Let Go of This Painful Reminder? 3/22/2021 Q&A When Is It Appropriate to Tell Adult Children about Their Mother's Affair? 3/22/2021 Pages« first‹ previous…91011121314151617…next ›last »