All Categories

After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need.

Must Reads

The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When…

The Problem with Forgiveness

Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Qu…

Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell…

Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Dece…

4574 Resources : All Categories

Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A How Can You Connect during a Structured In-House Separation?	12/06/2022
	Q&A How Can My Spouse Work with the Affair Partner and Still Be Okay?	12/06/2022
	Q&A How Do I Get over All of the Pain That I Have Caused?	12/06/2022
	Q&A Can You Help Us to Understand in What Ways a Long-Term Affair with a Toxic Affair Partner Effect the Recovery Process?	12/06/2022
	Q&A Is It Possible for Someone to Quit Porn Cold Turkey?	12/06/2022
	Q&A Do You Think He Truly Meant What He Said While Also Calling Me Beautiful on a Regular Basis?	12/06/2022
	Q&A Why Would You Have a Group of People Trying to Recover from Infidelity Being Led by a Single Female Who Is Divorced?	12/06/2022
	Pleasing Versus Loving	11/29/2022
	Healing After the Affair: Whether or Not to Get Help	11/23/2022
	Q&A Can You Explain More on Pimping Tenderness?	11/03/2022
	Q&A Are These Reoccurring Mental Images of Porn Normal?	11/03/2022
	Q&A Is Attraction Actually Objectification?	11/03/2022
	Q&A Is There Hope for My Husband in Recovery?	11/03/2022
	Q&A Any Advice on How, When & Where It’s Best to Share Our Story?	11/03/2022
	The Mystery of Change	11/02/2022
	Is Change Really Possible?	10/26/2022
	Q&A What Do I Do If I Don’t Believe My Mate Has Been Completely Honest with Their Full Disclosure?	10/13/2022
	Q&A Are My Kids Really ‘Love Children’ from My Affairs?	10/13/2022
	Q&A How Can the Unfaithful Work through the Deception Regarding the Infidelity?	10/13/2022
	Q&A What Kind of Professional Help Should I Seek?	10/13/2022
	Q&A How Can I Help My Husband Believe I’m Not Manipulating Him?	10/13/2022
	Q&A Will I Be Able to Find My Wife Sexually Attractive Again or Have I Broken My Brain?	10/13/2022
	Q&A Am I Struggling Because I Still Feel Unsafe in Recovery?	10/13/2022
	The Proper Use of Boundaries - Creating Space for Healing and Change	10/05/2022
	Anger: Its 6 Roots	9/28/2022
	Q&A Is Listening to Audiobooks That Are Sexually Explicit Considered Porn?	9/13/2022
	Q&A How Can an Unfaithful Spouse Develop Emotional Intelligence?	9/13/2022
	Q&A What Can We Do Differently?	9/13/2022
	Q&A How Do We Move Forward When I’m Not Sure He Can Admit to Himself What His Demons Are?	8/26/2022
	Q&A Is It Possible for Spouses to Have Emotional Affairs With Same Sex Best Friends?	8/26/2022
	Q&A Is This an Appropriate Deal-Breaker?	8/26/2022
	Q&A How Do We Heal from Sexual Abuse in Our Marriage?	8/26/2022
	Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids?	8/10/2022
	Q&A How Do I Not Feel So Bad About My Own Body?	8/03/2022
	Q&A Is It Strange for the Unfaithful to Have Depression?	8/03/2022
	Q&A Is This a Healthy Way to Process My Anger?	8/03/2022
	Q&A How Do I Deal With My Repulsion by the Idea of Sex Post Betrayal?	8/03/2022
	Q&A How Long Are You Suppose to Wait for Unfaithful to Take Responsibility and Have Empathy?	8/03/2022
	Q&A Should I Get Breast Implants to Please My Husband?	8/03/2022
	Q&A How Do I Forgive Myself for Marrying Someone While Choosing to Essentially Re-Marry Him?	8/03/2022
	Life After Divorce: How the Unfaithful Sees It	8/03/2022
	Q&A How Do I Keep My Boundaries Strong in a Place of Leadership?	7/07/2022
	Forgiveness: A Letter to My Younger Self	7/06/2022
	Q&A Are My Expectations to High? What Should He Be Doing to Reinforce That Love and Value of Me?	7/01/2022
	Q&A Am I Just Playing the Victim to Reduce My Guilt?	7/01/2022
	Q&A What Are the Signs I Should Run and Not Bother Wasting My Time or Emotions on Trying to Make My Marriage Work?	7/01/2022
	Why Couples Fail After an Affair \| Part 4 - Not Grieving the Loss	6/15/2022
	Q&A How Do My Wife and I Avoid Pretending Normal and Actually Tackle the Issue of Infidelity?	6/14/2022
	Q&A How Can I Be Comfortable Being Intimate Again?	6/14/2022
	Q&A Can I Truly Trust a Polygraph?	6/14/2022