All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair The Power of Small Groups Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? How to Survive Infidelity Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? The Problem with Forgiveness 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 4912 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Can Minimizing Childhood Trauma Affect the Ability to Take Responsibility and Show Empathy during Recovery? 9/13/2019 Q&A How Do I Heal from the Intrusive Thoughts That Came as Result of Recording and Listening to My Mates Conversations with the Affair Partner? 9/13/2019 Q&A Should I Have the Wayward Spouse Break off the Affair in Front of Me? 9/13/2019 Q&A Does He Need a Consequence to Fully Recommit? 9/13/2019 Q&A How Long Will It Take for My Husband to Retrain His Thinking? 9/13/2019 Q&A How Can I Overcome My Negative Feelings Towards Family Members? 9/13/2019 Q&A How Can We Create Safety and Follow-Through with Boundaries? 9/13/2019 Q&A What Do You Do When the Infidelity Involves Family Members? 9/13/2019 Q&A What Do His Boundary Violations Mean? 9/13/2019 Q&A Is There Something Wrong with Me Because I Still Love in Spite of All This? 9/13/2019 Q&A Can You Explain the Benefits of an In-House Separation? 9/13/2019 Q&A Should the Betrayed Spouse Inform the Affair Partners Spouse of the Affair? 9/11/2019 Q&A What Boundaries Are Appropriate in Recovery? 9/11/2019 Q&A Do You Have Any Advice for the Spouse of Someone Who's Been Autonomous for Nearly 20 Years in Addition to Being Passive Aggressive? 9/11/2019 Q&A Why Is My Spouse Having a Difficult Time with Empathy When I'm Hurting? 9/11/2019 Q&A Why Is My Wayward Spouse Having Such a Difficult Time Letting Go of the Affair Partner? 9/11/2019 Q&A How Do We Get Our Strong Emotional Connection Back? 9/11/2019 Q&A How Do I Know If I'm Making the Right Choice? 9/11/2019 Q&A Should We Stop the Trickle Effect of Disclosure? 9/04/2019 Q&A How Do I Heal When I Am Always in Fight or Flight Mode? 9/04/2019 Q&A How Can I Accept What My Mate Is Telling Me? 9/04/2019 Q&A Why Can't My Spouse See How They Could've Prevented Their Affair? 9/04/2019 Q&A How Long Will It Take for Feelings for the Affair Partner to Disappear? 9/04/2019 Q&A Are the Gottmans Encouraging Infidelity? 9/04/2019 Q&A How Can I Address the Anger and Defensiveness Coming from the Wayward Spouse? 9/04/2019 Q&A How Do I Protect My Children through All of This? 8/28/2019 Q&A What Do I Do about My Husband's Covert Narcissism? 8/28/2019 Q&A What Is a Normal Reaction from the Wayward When Discovering Infidelity? 8/28/2019 Q&A How Do I Handle My Husband’s Continued Obsessive Thoughts about the Affair Partner? 8/28/2019 Q&A How Could My Wife Feel so Connected with the Affair Partner and Not Think the Sex Was Better with Them? 8/28/2019 Q&A Why Do I Do about My Thoughts during Sex? 8/28/2019 Q&A How Do I Get past My Own Shame and Guilt? 8/28/2019 Q&A Is It Possible That My Spouse Is an Addict? 8/28/2019 Q&A How Is This Not about Me? 8/28/2019 Q&A How Do I Know When to Stand up and Say Enough Is Enough? 8/28/2019 Q&A How Much Does Childhood Abandonment Affect Recovery from Infidelity? 8/28/2019 Q&A How Do I Get past My Husband's Recreated Fantasy about a High School Girlfriend? 8/28/2019 Q&A Would This Level of Detail Hurt Our Recovery Process? 8/28/2019 Q&A Is Her Disgust about the Affair a Sign That the Limerence Is Disappearing? 8/28/2019 Q&A How Can I Know If What I Experienced with the Affair Partner Was Love, Limerence, or Love Addiction? 8/28/2019 Q&A How Should the Wayward Spouse Respond to New Discoveries by the Betrayed Spouse? 8/28/2019 Q&A Does It Matter If He Says It Was Love & I Say It Was Limerance? 8/28/2019 Q&A How Do We Move Forward When the Wayward Spouse Continues to Contact the Affair Partner? 8/28/2019 Q&A Did I Try to Recover to Quickly? 8/28/2019 Q&A What Does True Recovery Work and Change Look Like? 8/28/2019 Q&A Is It Possible to Restore the Marriage If the Wayward Spouse Wants Divorce? 8/28/2019 Q&A Can You Further Explain the Deceived-Self and the True-Self? 8/28/2019 Q&A Should We Wait for the Limerence to Subside before Seeking More Restoration? 8/28/2019 Q&A Can You Clarify the Statement, ‘My Mate Is Not the Problem, My Mate Only Reveals the Problem in Me’? 8/23/2019 Q&A How Do We Move Forward and Heal? 8/23/2019 Pages« first‹ previous…262728293031323334…next ›last »
