All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse The Problem with Forgiveness Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity How to Survive Infidelity How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened The Power of Small Groups 4957 Resources Type Title Posted Trauma and Infidelity 8/07/2019 Q&A How Do You Know If You’re Acting in Love and Not in an Accusatory Way? 8/06/2019 Q&A Is It Possible for the Wayward Spouse to Not Disclose Fully, yet Find Themselves Fully Recommitted after Discovery? 8/06/2019 Q&A How Do I Learn to Enjoy Anything in My Life? 8/06/2019 Q&A Which Path Should I Take? 8/06/2019 Q&A How Do We Handle Discovery When the Affair Happened So Long Ago? 8/06/2019 Q&A How Do I Process All This in a Healthy Way? 8/06/2019 Q&A How Can I Ever Feel Special Again? 8/06/2019 Q&A What Are Your Thoughts on Confronting His Affair Partner? 8/06/2019 Q&A What Exactly Does Repair Work Look Like? 8/06/2019 Q&A Is His Guilt Truly about the Affair or about Being Caught? 8/06/2019 Q&A What Can I Do to Protect My Children? 8/06/2019 Q&A Can We Ever Get past This If I Know That I Don't Want to Forgive My Mate? 8/06/2019 Q&A How Can I Continue to Establish Trust? 8/06/2019 Q&A Can I Move Forward If I'm Concerned about Honesty? 8/06/2019 Q&A How Do I Convince Myself That My Mate Really Desires Me? 8/06/2019 Q&A How Do I Quit Thinking about My Husband's Affair? 8/06/2019 Q&A Do You Have Advice for My Situation? 8/06/2019 Q&A Would You Please Help Me Understand? 8/06/2019 Q&A How Do I Break Through? 8/06/2019 Q&A Why Am I Being Pulled so Strongly to Act Out When I’m Doing All This Recovery Work? 8/02/2019 Q&A Should My Husband Confront His Affair Partner? 8/02/2019 Q&A What Does Recovery Look like If the Wayward Spouse Isn't Grieved about the Affair? 8/02/2019 Q&A Do You Think Its Good to Focus on the Friendship Aspect of the Marriage during Recovery? 8/02/2019 Q&A How Can I Ever Dare to Be Vulnerable and Trust Again? 8/02/2019 Q&A Why Can't I Believe That My Mate Is Attracted to Me? 8/02/2019 Q&A How Can I Stop Blaming Myself for My Husband’s Acting Out? 8/02/2019 Q&A Will I Ever Be Able to Enjoy My Wife like a Normal Man? 8/02/2019 Q&A How Can We Overcome Sexual Performance Issues and Improve Intimacy? 8/02/2019 Q&A Does It Make Sense to Continue Our Relationship? 8/02/2019 Q&A Should We Be Concerned about the Content of Our Dreams during Recovery? 8/02/2019 Q&A Is It True That People with Trust Issues Often Choose Untrustworthy Partners? 8/02/2019 Q&A Has Something Gone Wrong in My Husband's Recovery? 7/24/2019 Q&A How Do I Get My Wayward Spouse to Open up to Me? 7/24/2019 Q&A How Can I Be Transparent in a Way That Doesn't Hurt My Mate? 7/24/2019 Q&A How Much Time Is Reasonable to Talk per Day or Even per Week to Process a 10 Year Affair? 7/24/2019 Q&A Why Can't I Get past My Triggers? 7/24/2019 Q&A Has My Husband's Sexual Addiction Ruined His Ability to Be Attracted to Me? 7/24/2019 Q&A How Do I Handle My Husband's Dishonesty? 7/24/2019 Q&A Do You Have Suggestions for Understanding and Expressing My Emotions? 7/24/2019 Q&A Because of Medical Problems Our Sex Life Has Become All about Me and There's Nothing for Him. What Can We Do? 7/24/2019 Q&A If I Draw a Line in the Sand about My Affair It Could Result in Me Losing My Child, What Do You Suggest? 7/17/2019 Q&A Could You Provide Some Feedback on Infidelity That Happens in Good Marriages? 7/17/2019 Q&A Am I Using the Affair Partners Choices as a Cop-Out? 7/17/2019 Q&A Am I Being Used? 7/17/2019 Q&A How Do We Create a New Marriage If the Old Marriage Is Dead? 7/17/2019 Q&A How Do We Maintain Peace When We Live in Close Proximity to the Affair Partner? 7/10/2019 Q&A Am I Wrong for Wanting to Keep Contact with People I Feel Safe Around? 7/10/2019 Q&A What Are Your Thoughts on Our Small Group Dynamic? 7/10/2019 Q&A Would Taking the Hope for Healing Course Be like Ripping off Old Scabs? 7/10/2019 Pages« first‹ previous…293031323334353637…next ›last »