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4574 Resources : All Categories

Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A Do All Men Compartmentalize?	9/18/2019
	Q&A What Matters More in Recovery, Intention or Impact?	9/18/2019
	Q&A Will Seeing a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist Cause More Harm Than Good?	9/18/2019
	Q&A Is It Possible to Recover to Quickly?	9/18/2019
	Q&A How Do I Heal from My Mates Suicide during Recovery?	9/18/2019
	Q&A What Do You Recommend for Our In-House-Separation?	9/18/2019
	Q&A Why Would the Wayward Spouse Compare Their Pain with My Pain?	9/18/2019
	Q&A How Can I Trust What the Wayward Spouse Is Disclosing to Me?	9/18/2019
	Q&A Is It My Responsibility to Initiate at This Point in Our Healing?	9/18/2019
	Q&A Should I Cancel My Polygraph Due to My Anxiety Level?	9/18/2019
	Q&A How Long Do I Wait for the Wayward Spouse to Be Emotionally Available?	9/18/2019
	Q&A Am I Controlling My Spouse or Is This the Appropriate Way to Set Boundaries?	9/18/2019
	Expert Q&A Preview: How Do I Let Go of My Regrets?	9/18/2019
	Q&A At What Point Do You Give up on Your Spouse?	9/13/2019
	Q&A How Do I Show Grace without Being Taken Advantage Of?	9/13/2019
	Q&A What Would You Recommend for Spouses Who Lose Their Mate to Suicide during Recovery?	9/13/2019
	Q&A Can I Ever Get Passed Sharing My Daughter with the Affair Partner?	9/13/2019
	Q&A What Can I Do to Keep These Triggers from Impacting Me so Much?	9/13/2019
	Q&A Are There Differences in Recovery Based on When Discovery Happens?	9/13/2019
	Q&A Is It Possible to Recover Hope for Something New?	9/13/2019
	Q&A How Do I Stay Safe When My Mate Is Still Ambivalent?	9/13/2019
	Q&A Can Minimizing Childhood Trauma Affect the Ability to Take Responsibility and Show Empathy during Recovery?	9/13/2019
	Q&A How Do I Heal from the Intrusive Thoughts That Came as Result of Recording and Listening to My Mates Conversations with the Affair Partner?	9/13/2019
	Q&A Should I Have the Wayward Spouse Break off the Affair in Front of Me?	9/13/2019
	Q&A Does He Need a Consequence to Fully Recommit?	9/13/2019
	Q&A How Long Will It Take for My Husband to Retrain His Thinking?	9/13/2019
	Q&A How Can I Overcome My Negative Feelings Towards Family Members?	9/13/2019
	Q&A How Can We Create Safety and Follow-Through with Boundaries?	9/13/2019
	Q&A What Do You Do When the Infidelity Involves Family Members?	9/13/2019
	Q&A What Do His Boundary Violations Mean?	9/13/2019
	Q&A Is There Something Wrong with Me Because I Still Love in Spite of All This?	9/13/2019
	Q&A Can You Explain the Benefits of an In-House Separation?	9/13/2019
	Q&A Should the Betrayed Spouse Inform the Affair Partners Spouse of the Affair?	9/11/2019
	Q&A What Boundaries Are Appropriate in Recovery?	9/11/2019
	Q&A Do You Have Any Advice for the Spouse of Someone Who's Been Autonomous for Nearly 20 Years in Addition to Being Passive Aggressive?	9/11/2019
	Q&A Why Is My Spouse Having a Difficult Time with Empathy When I'm Hurting?	9/11/2019
	Q&A Why Is My Wayward Spouse Having Such a Difficult Time Letting Go of the Affair Partner?	9/11/2019
	Q&A How Do We Get Our Strong Emotional Connection Back?	9/11/2019
	Q&A How Do I Know If I'm Making the Right Choice?	9/11/2019
	Q&A Should We Stop the Trickle Effect of Disclosure?	9/04/2019
	Q&A How Do I Heal When I Am Always in Fight or Flight Mode?	9/04/2019
	Q&A How Can I Accept What My Mate Is Telling Me?	9/04/2019
	Q&A Why Can't My Spouse See How They Could've Prevented Their Affair?	9/04/2019
	Q&A How Long Will It Take for Feelings for the Affair Partner to Disappear?	9/04/2019
	Q&A Are the Gottmans Encouraging Infidelity?	9/04/2019
	Q&A How Can I Address the Anger and Defensiveness Coming from the Wayward Spouse?	9/04/2019
	Q&A How Do I Protect My Children through All of This?	8/28/2019
	Q&A What Do I Do about My Husband's Covert Narcissism?	8/28/2019
	Q&A What Is a Normal Reaction from the Wayward When Discovering Infidelity?	8/28/2019
	Q&A How Do I Handle My Husband’s Continued Obsessive Thoughts about the Affair Partner?	8/28/2019