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After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need.

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Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A How Could My Wife Feel so Connected with the Affair Partner and Not Think the Sex Was Better with Them?	8/28/2019
	Q&A Why Do I Do about My Thoughts during Sex?	8/28/2019
	Q&A How Do I Get past My Own Shame and Guilt?	8/28/2019
	Q&A Is It Possible That My Spouse Is an Addict?	8/28/2019
	Q&A How Is This Not about Me?	8/28/2019
	Q&A How Do I Know When to Stand up and Say Enough Is Enough?	8/28/2019
	Q&A How Much Does Childhood Abandonment Affect Recovery from Infidelity?	8/28/2019
	Q&A How Do I Get past My Husband's Recreated Fantasy about a High School Girlfriend?	8/28/2019
	Q&A Would This Level of Detail Hurt Our Recovery Process?	8/28/2019
	Q&A Is Her Disgust about the Affair a Sign That the Limerence Is Disappearing?	8/28/2019
	Q&A How Can I Know If What I Experienced with the Affair Partner Was Love, Limerence, or Love Addiction?	8/28/2019
	Q&A How Should the Wayward Spouse Respond to New Discoveries by the Betrayed Spouse?	8/28/2019
	Q&A Does It Matter If He Says It Was Love & I Say It Was Limerance?	8/28/2019
	Q&A How Do We Move Forward When the Wayward Spouse Continues to Contact the Affair Partner?	8/28/2019
	Q&A Did I Try to Recover to Quickly?	8/28/2019
	Q&A What Does True Recovery Work and Change Look Like?	8/28/2019
	Q&A Is It Possible to Restore the Marriage If the Wayward Spouse Wants Divorce?	8/28/2019
	Q&A Can You Further Explain the Deceived-Self and the True-Self?	8/28/2019
	Q&A Should We Wait for the Limerence to Subside before Seeking More Restoration?	8/28/2019
	Q&A Can You Clarify the Statement, ‘My Mate Is Not the Problem, My Mate Only Reveals the Problem in Me’?	8/23/2019
	Q&A How Do We Move Forward and Heal?	8/23/2019
	Q&A Is It Possible for My Wayward Spouse to Accept Unconditional Love?	8/23/2019
	Q&A Is There Still Hope for Our Marriage?	8/23/2019
	Q&A How Can I Convince My Spouse That I've Disclosed All of the Details?	8/23/2019
	Q&A How Do I Get My Spouse to Open up about Their Affair?	8/23/2019
	Q&A Is My Spouse Being Truthful with Me?	8/23/2019
	Q&A Why Is It Always on Me to Set Boundaries?	8/23/2019
	Q&A What Resources Do You Recommend upon Finishing the Aftercare Program?	8/23/2019
	Q&A Do We Tell Our Son about the Affair?	8/23/2019
	Q&A How Do I Handle the Betrayal by My Mate’s College Aged Daughter?	8/23/2019
	Q&A Is My Spouse Showing a Lack of Trustworthiness?	8/23/2019
	Q&A How Do You Heal When the Wayward Spouse Cannot Recall the Details That You Need?	8/23/2019
	Q&A How Much Time Do I Need to Give My Mate to Heal?	8/23/2019
	Q&A Has My Spouse Replaced One Addiction for Another?	8/23/2019
	Q&A At What Point Do I Give Up?	8/23/2019
	Q&A Why Am I Still Hurting?	8/23/2019
	Q&A Should I Tell My Husband That I Know More Details about His Affair Than I've Led on To?	8/23/2019
	Q&A How Does Sexual Imprinting in a Women during Her Teenage Years Impact Her Desire to Be Intimate in a Marriage Compared to with an Affair Partner?	8/23/2019
	Healing After Infidelity: What Doesn't Work.	8/21/2019
	Q&A How Do I Handle My Thoughts and Questions?	8/20/2019
	Q&A What Is the Difference between Infatuation and Love?	8/20/2019
	Q&A How Can I Believe What My Husband Is Saying?	8/20/2019
	Q&A Is My Husband Really Repentant?	8/20/2019
	Q&A What Recommendations Do You Have for Overcoming the Sexual Part of the Affair?	8/20/2019
	Q&A How Can I Persuade My Husband That the Affair Partner Is More Than Just a Friend?	8/20/2019
	Q&A What Do You Suggest for My Husband and I?	8/20/2019
	Q&A Is My Husband's Argument Right?	8/20/2019
	Q&A Do You Agree with My Counselor?	8/20/2019
	Q&A What Is the Difference between Setting Boundaries and Judging?	8/20/2019
	Q&A How Can We Create Safety When Talking about the Affair?	8/20/2019