Q&A What Treatment Do You Recommend for Prolonged Intrusive Thoughts? 4/01/2026
Q&A How Do I Stop the Cycle of Self-Sabotage and Regain My Identity? 4/01/2026
Q&A How Can I Help the Betrayed Overcome Comparison With the Affair Partner? 3/25/2026
Q&A How Do I Repair The Damage I Caused from Trickle-Truth? 3/10/2026
Q&A Do you Think It Is Fair To Focus on The Betrayed's Behaviors After D-Day? 1/21/2026
Q&A How Do We Handle Intense Intrusive Thoughts When Working High-Demand Jobs? 10/22/2025
Q&A Is It Normal for the Betrayed Partner to Feel Rage? 10/02/2025
Q&A What Advice Would You Give to a Couple Who Feels Safe Now and for the Future, but Is Struggling with ‘Getting Right’ with past Infidelities and Traumas? 10/02/2025
Q&A How Do I Move Forward from Here? 9/10/2025
Q&A Could You Provide Suggestion on How to Predict & Repair Intrusive Thoughts When We Are Engaging in Sex? 8/28/2025
Q&A How Do I Heal from the Race of the Affair Partner Being a Trigger? 5/28/2025
Q&A How Do I Stop Feeling Such Hatred Towards His Affair Partner? 5/14/2025
Q&A How Can She Support the ED That Came from Her Betrayal, Instead of Waiting for It to Fix Itself? 5/06/2025
Q&A Why Do I Get Aroused Imagining the Sexual Acts My Wife Did with Her Affair Partner? 4/16/2025
Q&A Can I Forgive My Husband for Abandonment? 4/01/2025
Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Journaling as a Betrayed Spouse? 3/26/2025
Q&A Can You Give Me Insight on What Therapy Modalities Would Be Best for Me? 3/11/2025
Q&A Can the Wayward Spouse Really Have No Triggers? 2/18/2025
Q&A Will the Sadness and Intrusive Thoughts Ever Stop? 2/11/2025
Q&A What Do You Do If the Wayward Spouse Shows No Remorse, Empathy, or Compassion? 1/14/2025
Q&A Is My Spouse Trying to Punish Me for What I’ve Done? 11/12/2024
Q&A How Do I Handle My Issue With Disassociation? 11/05/2024
Q&A How Can I Get These Images Out of My Mind and Get back to Just Being With My Husband? 9/18/2024
Q&A How Do I Help My Mate Get back the Dignity and Self-Worth I Took From Her With My Betrayal? 9/18/2024
Q&A How Can I Help My Wayward Spouse Heal From Betrayal Trauma From a Prior Relationship? 7/31/2024
Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Polygraphs, Anxiety Induced False Positives, and Full Disclosure During Recovery? 7/26/2024
Q&A As the Betrayed, Should I Focus on Avoiding the Affair Partner? 7/10/2024
Q&A What Should We Look for in a Therapist to Ensure They Can Provide the Specialized Support Needed for Infidelity Recovery? 7/10/2024
Q&A How Do I Stop the Comparisons, Build Confidence, and Get Better at Sex Without Feeling Like I’m Trying to Be Like the Affair Partner? 6/19/2024
Q&A What Is the Best Way to Build Trust Around My Husband’s Actions and My Triggers? 6/13/2024
Q&A How Do I Respond When the Betrayed Ridicules, Shames, and Slanders Me for What I Have Done? 6/13/2024
Q&A How Do I Address Her Readiness to Engage With Someone So Despicable Versus Her Resistance to Reconnect Intimately With Me? 5/07/2024
Q&A How Do I Cope With the Resurgence of Past Traumas Triggered by Such Betrayal? 4/25/2024
Q&A How Do You Stop Thinking About and Forgive The Affair Partner? 4/25/2024
Q&A Where Can I Find Help for My Mate’s Cognitive Issues Surrounding the Lessons and My Grief? 4/25/2024
Q&A How Can We Overcome Arousal Issues Resulting From Disclosure? 4/03/2024
Q&A How Does Betrayal Affect Pregnancy and the Well-Being of the Unborn Child? 3/19/2024
Q&A How Do I Get the Affair Partners Out of My Head? 3/19/2024
Q&A How Do I Help My Wife Feel Safe When She Is Triggered? 2/28/2024
Q&A How Do I Get over the Fact He Wanted to Walk Out on Us? 1/30/2024
Q&A How Do I Communicate Love, Compassion, and Empathy during the Discovery Process or Questioning? 11/28/2023
Q&A How Can I Help My Mate Understand the Devastation I’m Experiencing Because of Them Giving Me An STD? 10/23/2023
Q&A How Do I Commit to This Marriage When I Promised Myself I’d Never Stay with Someone Who Cheated On Me? 10/23/2023
Q&A How Do I Heal from the Profound Pain Caused by My Unfaithful Spouse Treating Me with Disdain for So Long? 9/29/2023
Q&A How Do I Stop the Triggers and Reminders When Every Day They Are There? 6/29/2023
Q&A Is It Common for Betrayed Spouses to Have Trouble with Depression and Lack of Focus Which Detrimentally Affects Their Work? 6/16/2023
Q&A How Do I Let Go of What Happened and Fully Re-Engage with My Mate? 5/19/2023
Q&A Is My Mate’s Inability to Experience Emotions Due to Deep Trauma or Something More Problematic? 5/02/2023
Q&A Is My Lack of Emotion Normal or Am I Experiencing Something Much Worse? 3/17/2023
Q&A How Can I Help My Spouse Acknowledge That Being in an Affair for So Long Has Affected the Way They See Themselves, Me, and Our Relationship Sexually? 2/17/2023
