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After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need.
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Video icon Q&A After a Polygraph Is Done to Confirm the Couple Is at Ground Zero, What Should Each Partner Expect from the Other Going Forward?
Video icon Q&A How Do You Recommend We Handle Interactions with the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A How Does He Not Have Deep Residual Feelings for the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Dismantle the Wall Hindering My Wayward Spouse from Expressing Sorrow, Remorse, and Empathy?
Video icon When Should You Stop Talking About the Affair?
Video icon Q&A I Want My Mate to Apologize. Is It Okay to Tell Him the Things He Has Done That Have Hurt Me?
Video icon Q&A Are My Requests for Relapse Prevention Measures Unreasonable?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Protect My Own Boundaries While Navigating This Complex Relationship?
Video icon Moving from Self-Hatred to Self-Compassion
Video icon Q&A Can You Please Give Some Direction on the Various Courses and the Best Way to Go Through Them?
Video icon Q&A What Would Put Me Back Into Integrity as a Betrayed Spouse?
Video icon Q&A Why Is My Husband Blaming Me for His Affair?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Talk About My Stupidity in a Redemptive Way, While I’m Still Struggling Through My Heart Change?
Video icon Will I Ever Feel Chosen?
Video icon Forgiving Yourself: A Healing Necessity for Both Spouses
Video icon Q&A Am I Wrong for Wanting My Husband to Completely Separate from Anyone Complicit in His Affair?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Forgive the Affair Partner When She Is Still Impacting My Life So Negatively?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Respond If I Feel the Wayward Spouse Doesn’t Want to Be with Me?
Video icon Movies & Infidelity: Why Hollywood Seems Obsessed with Sex & Secrets
Video icon Q&A How Can I Get Past This Feeling of Never Being Her Choice When She Had Freedom to Choose?
Video icon Q&A Do I Take Action Against the Affair Partner or Just Letting It Go?
Video icon The Crucial Role of Disclosure in Healing (Survey)
Video icon The Number One Question and How to Answer It
Video icon Q&A How Do I Stop Hating the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Healing or Blending Two Different Attachment Styles?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Heal from the Race of the Affair Partner Being a Trigger?
Video icon Q&A Is There Any Hope That My Husband Will Change?
Video icon The Brain’s Hidden Wound of Betrayal Trauma
Video icon Who I Should (and Shouldn't) Tell About the Affair
Video icon Q&A How Do I Stop Feeling Such Hatred Towards His Affair Partner?
Video icon How Do I Know I Am Not “Plan B?”
Video icon Grappling with Disappointment from an Affair
Video icon Q&A What Are You Thoughts on Using Parental Control Apps to Create Safety and Rebuild Trust?
Video icon Q&A How Can She Support the ED That Came from Her Betrayal, Instead of Waiting for It to Fix Itself?
Video icon Q&A Do You Have Experience with BPD Affairs?
Video icon Do’s & Don’ts of Emotional Flooding
Video icon Q&A When Do I Throw in the Towel?
Video icon Q&A As the Betrayed, Is It Wise to Seek Closure with the Affair Partner?
Video icon Deciding to Stay: Practical Ways to Rebuild Safety
Video icon Q&A How Do We Move past This Set-Back in Our Recovery?
Video icon Q&A Why Do I Get Aroused Imagining the Sexual Acts My Wife Did with Her Affair Partner?
Text icon The True Definition of Love and Its Role In Surviving An Affair
Video icon Q&A How Long Will It Take for Him to Get Over His Feelings Towards Her and the Fantasy of the Affair?
Video icon Q&A Do You Suggest He Focus On Healing Himself First, Then Our Marriage?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Restore the Relationship with Our Adult Children?
Video icon Q&A Is It Healthy for Me to Gather Evidence in Order to Move On from This?
Video icon Q&A Is There a Way to Reconnect or Get Him to Engage Before Throwing 35 Years Away?
Video icon Q&A When My Mate Accuses Me of Being a Narcissist Are They Really Recognizing Traits Within Themselves?
Video icon The Myth of Greener Grass in Marriage
Video icon Q&A When Will the Abusive Language and Name-Calling from the Betrayed Spouse Stop?