All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 How to Survive Infidelity 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal The Problem with Forgiveness The Power of Small Groups Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors 4957 Resources Type Title Posted My Spouse Had an Affair: What Should I Do Now? 8/09/2023 Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? 8/02/2023 The Antidote for Shame: Understanding the Unfaithful 7/26/2023 Is Ambivalence Common When Healing from Infidelity? 7/19/2023 How Can You Move Past Ambivalence After Infidelity? 7/19/2023 Stuck? Three Methods to Get Moving in Infidelity Recovery 7/12/2023 Denial and Recovery After an Affair 7/05/2023 Q&A Should My Husband Contact the Affair Partner to Break Things off If They Haven’t Had Contact in Almost a Year? 6/29/2023 Q&A Can You Help Me Understand How My Husband Can Be Apathetic toward the Affair Partner? 6/29/2023 Q&A How Do We Navigate Seeing the Emotional Part of the Affair Differently? 6/29/2023 Q&A How Do I Stop the Triggers and Reminders When Every Day They Are There? 6/29/2023 Recovering From Infidelity Pain: Are They Lying About ‘Why’? 6/28/2023 Hope for Healing Excerpt: 'Is My Life Out of Control?' 6/21/2023 Q&A What Is the Best Way to Acknowledge the Work My Husband Is Doing Without Giving Him Too Much Praise? 6/16/2023 Q&A How Can I Continue to Be Empathetic to Her If in Spite of All I Do, It Is Still Not Enough? 6/16/2023 Q&A Is It Common for Betrayed Spouses to Have Trouble with Depression and Lack of Focus Which Detrimentally Affects Their Work? 6/16/2023 Q&A I Understand the Importance of Not Being Defensive about the Infidelity or Betrayal, but Does That Extend into Every Aspect of Our Lives? 6/16/2023 Q&A Why Would He Go Back to the Same Person He Thinks Is So Nasty? 6/16/2023 Q&A How Do I Handle My Betrayal When the Affair Partner Is So Close with My Husband’s Family? 6/16/2023 Q&A How Did ADHD and Other Factors Like Depression and Anxiety Contribute to My Affairs? 6/16/2023 Q&A How Do I Move past Something I Love Being Shared with the Affair Partner? 6/16/2023 Q&A Can You Elaborate More on Type Four Affairs? 6/16/2023 Discovery: Why Do I Want to Know? 6/14/2023 Discovery: Processing the Details of the Affair 6/07/2023 Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain 5/31/2023 How to Get Your Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) 5/24/2023 Q&A Am I Wrong to Still Be in This Much Pain? 5/19/2023 Q&A How Can I Have Hope for My Mates Recovery with Those Odds? 5/19/2023 Q&A Why Do I Still Respond Physically like I Am Lying When I’m Telling the Truth? 5/19/2023 Q&A Are Any Lasting Feelings for the Affair Partner Permitted? 5/19/2023 Q&A How Do We Navigate Recovery If My Mate Doesn’t Believe They Are Committing Infidelity? 5/19/2023 Q&A If There Is a Future for Our Marriage, Would You See the Journey to Be Any Different than Normal? 5/19/2023 Q&A How Do I Create a Coherent Story If the Details from My Mate Are Always Changing? 5/19/2023 Q&A How Do I Let Go of What Happened and Fully Re-Engage with My Mate? 5/19/2023 Affair Recovery Steps: How to Live Without Fear After Infidelity 5/17/2023 What Is the Cost of Forgiving Infidelity? 5/10/2023 When to Save a Marriage After Infidelity 5/03/2023 Q&A How Do I Handle a New Betrayal Immediately after EMS Weekend? 5/02/2023 Q&A I’m Losing Compassion for My Mate. What Can I Do? 5/02/2023 Q&A Is It My Fault That They Did What They Did? 5/02/2023 Q&A How Do I Get past the Shame and Hurt? 5/02/2023 Q&A What Do I Do When My Spouse Is Making Me Choose between Her and My Faith? 5/02/2023 Q&A How Does One Find a Reputable and Affordable Polygraph Test Provider? 5/02/2023 Q&A Is My Mate’s Inability to Experience Emotions Due to Deep Trauma or Something More Problematic? 5/02/2023 Your Brain on Porn and Understanding the Sex Addict 4/26/2023 Q&A How Do You Recommend I Write My Closure Letter to the Affair Partner? 4/20/2023 Q&A Is It Necessary for Him to Be Proactive or Should I Be Happy He’s Doing What I Ask of Him? 4/12/2023 Q&A What If the Only Way I Can Heal Is without Horizontal Forgiveness? 4/12/2023 Q&A How Do We Handle Workplace Triggers in Recovery? 4/12/2023 Q&A Do You Think My Spouse Is Being Honest about Why They Stayed in the Affair for So Long? 4/12/2023 Pages« first‹ previous…2345678910…next ›last »
