Q&A Recovery Library
Thousands of questions answered by infidelity expert Rick Reynolds, LCSW and other experts from one trusted source. Gain insights from professionals who not only have specialized in treating infidelity for decades but also have healed from infidelity personally.
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3872 Resources
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Video Q&A How Do I Respond If I Don’t Believe My Spouse? 11/12/2024
Video Q&A Is My Spouse Trying to Punish Me for What I’ve Done? 11/12/2024
Video Q&A How Do I Handle My Issue With Disassociation? 11/05/2024
Video Q&A How Do We Navigate Outside Advice and Establish Boundaries to Protect Our Relationship? 10/30/2024
Video Q&A Could My Husband’s Actions Be Early Signs of Relapse? 10/30/2024
Video Q&A How Do I Support My Partner and Accept That I Can’t Control Their Recovery Journey? 10/30/2024
Video Q&A How Do I Help My Unfaithful Husband as He Seems to Be So Buried in Shame, Self-Loathing, and a Huge Sense of Worthlessness? 10/22/2024
Video Q&A How Do I Know if It Is Time to Let the Relationship Go? 10/22/2024
Video Q&A How Do I Come to Terms With My New Reality as a Betrayed Spouse? 10/22/2024
Video Q&A My Betrayed Partner Says They’re Only in EMS Online So They Can Say ‘They Tried’. What Do I Do? 10/09/2024
Video Q&A How Do I Heal From the Shame I’m Feeling as a Result of My Affair? 10/09/2024
Video Q&A Is It Normal for Family to Feel Disappointed at Us for Staying With the Wayward Spouse? 10/01/2024
Video Q&A Why Does My Husband (Wayward) Not Want to Reconnect With Me (Betrayed) Physically? 10/01/2024
Video Q&A Am I a Fool for Being Vulnerable With My Mate? 10/01/2024
Video Q&A How Do I Get the Lying and the Porn Use by My Husband to Stop? 9/18/2024
Video Q&A How Do I Feel Special Again After I Have Lost So Much Including Places That Were Just Ours? 9/18/2024
Video Q&A Did My Wife Need to Justify Her Behavior in Cheating on Me? 9/18/2024
Video Q&A How Do I Replace What I Feel With What I Know, if I Don’t Know What the Truth Is? 9/18/2024
Video Q&A How Do I Shut Down the Intrusive Thoughts of My Husband With the Affair Partners That Have Become Erotic to Me? 9/18/2024
Video Q&A What Else Can I Do to Help Facilitate the Healing Process for My Betrayed Spouse and Myself? 9/18/2024
Video Q&A How Can I Get These Images Out of My Mind and Get back to Just Being With My Husband? 9/18/2024
Video Q&A How Do I Help My Mate Get back the Dignity and Self-Worth I Took From Her With My Betrayal? 9/18/2024
Video A Discussion on Anger, Boundaries and Regrets After Infidelity 9/18/2024
Video Q&A Are We at the End of the Road? 8/20/2024
Video Q&A How Do I Get Past or Heal From the Hurtful Things My Husband Said About Me to His Affair Partners? 8/20/2024
Video Q&A Would Viewing Surveillance Footage of My Husband’s Affair Be Helpful? 8/14/2024
Video Q&A Do We Tell My Wife Parents About Her Behavior in Their House? 8/06/2024
Video Q&A How Do I Get over Feeling Disgust With My Partner Over Who He Chose to Have an Affair With? 8/06/2024
Video Q&A How Do I Truly Know if My Wayward Spouse Has Changed? 8/06/2024
Video Q&A What Do I Do When My Wayward Spouse Refuses to Meet My Emotional Needs? 8/06/2024
Video Q&A How Can I Better Understand the Behaviors of My Wayward Spouse? 7/31/2024
Video Q&A How Can I Get My Wife to Understand That Abuse Towards Men Is Equal to Abuse Towards Women? 7/31/2024
Video Q&A How Can I Help My Wayward Spouse Heal From Betrayal Trauma From a Prior Relationship? 7/31/2024
Video Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Polygraphs, Anxiety Induced False Positives, and Full Disclosure During Recovery? 7/26/2024
Video Q&A How Can I Believe My Mate When They Say the Affair Is Over? 7/26/2024
Video Q&A If We Move, Would We Be Running From Our Problems or Could It Help Our Recovery? 7/10/2024
Video Q&A As the Betrayed, Should I Focus on Avoiding the Affair Partner? 7/10/2024
Video Q&A Do I Have to Take a Polygraph? 7/10/2024
Video Q&A How Do I Get My Mate to Quit Using ‘Absolutes'? 7/10/2024
Video Q&A Should I Risk Provoking My Affair Partner if It Makes My Mate Feel Better? 7/10/2024
Video Q&A How Can We Reconnect if I Don’t Know What Happened? 7/10/2024
Video Q&A Am I Asking for Too Much Control or Is the Wayward Spouse Being Unreasonable With a Lack of Boundaries? 7/10/2024
Video Q&A Do I Need to Allow the Wayward Spouse to Have More Time in the Recovery Process? 7/10/2024
Video Q&A What Should We Look for in a Therapist to Ensure They Can Provide the Specialized Support Needed for Infidelity Recovery? 7/10/2024
Video Q&A How Do I Reconnect Intimately With My Betrayed Husband Now Knowing That He Is Dealing with His Own Temptations? 6/19/2024
Video Q&A Can You Please Address the Problem of Grieving Memories Like Childbirth Under the Shadow of an Affair? 6/19/2024
Video Q&A Is It Advisable to Leave This Church and Find Another Church Home to Help With Restoration and Recovery? 6/19/2024
Video Q&A How Do I Stop the Comparisons, Build Confidence, and Get Better at Sex Without Feeling Like I’m Trying to Be Like the Affair Partner? 6/19/2024
Video Q&A What Is the Best Way to Build Trust Around My Husband’s Actions and My Triggers? 6/13/2024
Video Q&A Is It Okay for the Unfaithful to Masturbate While I, the Betrayed, Can’t Be Intimate Right Now Because of Lack of Emotional Connection and a Lot of Hurt? 6/13/2024

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