Handling Discovery

We call it “D-day” for a reason. These articles will help you understand the process of disclosure and how to keep the process safe.

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Video icon Q&A How Do I Not Feel Betrayed After Years of Dismissal?
Video icon Q&A Should I Disclose to My Wayward Spouse Who I Shared Details With After Discovery?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Find Closure in Our Situation?
Video icon Q&A Do I Ask These Questions, Even if They May Cause Further Pain?
Video icon Q&A Should We Wait to Participate in EMS Online?
Video icon Q&A What Do We Do In A Situation This Earth Shattering?
Video icon Q&A How Will These Delays and Trickle Truth Affect Our Recovery Timeline?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Stop Feeling Such Hatred Towards His Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A As the Betrayed, Is It Wise to Seek Closure with the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A Can You Shed Light on Pass/Fail Outcomes and Eye-Scan Polygraph Tests?
Video icon Q&A Does It Matter Who Ended the Affair?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Tell the Wayward Spouse I Need More Discussion to Heal and Process?
Video icon Q&A How Detailed Should the Disclosure Be for a 7-Year Emotional Affair With a Coworker?
Video icon Q&A Do You Think I Should Reach Out to Affair Partner’s Wife and Disclose the Affair?
Video icon Q&A Will She Ever Tell the Truth Without Being Backed Into a Corner?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Replace What I Feel With What I Know, if I Don’t Know What the Truth Is?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Get Past or Heal From the Hurtful Things My Husband Said About Me to His Affair Partners?
Video icon Q&A Would Viewing Surveillance Footage of My Husband’s Affair Be Helpful?
Video icon Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Polygraphs, Anxiety Induced False Positives, and Full Disclosure During Recovery?
Video icon Q&A Do I Have to Take a Polygraph?
Video icon Q&A How Can We Reconnect if I Don’t Know What Happened?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Respond When the Betrayed Ridicules, Shames, and Slanders Me for What I Have Done?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Address Her Readiness to Engage With Someone So Despicable Versus Her Resistance to Reconnect Intimately With Me?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Cope With the Resurgence of Past Traumas Triggered by Such Betrayal?
Video icon Q&A Why Does My Husband Continue to Lie When I’ve Been a Safe Place for Him Since I Returned?
Video icon Q&A What Do I Do with an Unfaithful Spouse Who Will Not Provide Me with Full Disclosure?
Video icon Q&A If a Person Is Taking Medications and Has Gone Thru 6 Rounds of Chemo before Taking a Polygraph, Could This Give a False Reading?
Video icon Q&A Does the Wayward Spouse Have a Right to Ask the Betrayed What Source They Are Using to Find Information about the Affair?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Communicate Love, Compassion, and Empathy during the Discovery Process or Questioning?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Show Empathy Towards My Wife after Her Revenge Affair When She Refuses to Give Full Disclosure?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Create a Coherent Story If the Details from My Mate Are Always Changing?
Video icon Q&A How Does One Find a Reputable and Affordable Polygraph Test Provider?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Approach This Polygraph without Feeling like My Marriage Is on the Line?
Video icon Q&A Do You Think There Is an Appropriate Methodology of Trying to Recall Some of This Using Hypnosis?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Handle My Mate Weaponizing Information That I’m Sharing with Them?
Video icon Q&A What Can I Do, as the Betrayed, to Try and Get Closure?
Video icon Q&A How Can We Get Anywhere If a Calm Conversation Can’t Happen about His Recovery or Betrayals?
Video icon Q&A Any Advice on How, When & Where It’s Best to Share Our Story?
Video icon Q&A What Do I Do If I Don’t Believe My Mate Has Been Completely Honest with Their Full Disclosure?
Video icon Q&A Can I Truly Trust a Polygraph?
Video icon Q&A Why Can’t I Give My Spouse Full Disclosure?
Video icon Q&A What Is the Best Way to Discuss the Questions That Most Wayward Spouses Get from the Betrayed?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Handle Disclosure When My Infidelity Was So Long Ago and I Can’t Remember All the Details?
Video icon Q&A What If the Hurt Spouse Needs More Information than the Wayward Spouse Is Willing to Give?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Create a Shared View of Our Relationship When We Have No Valid Timelines to Reference?
Video icon Q&A How Should I Go About Trying to Get to Ground Zero?
Video icon Q&A Is It Normal to Feel Calm After Disclosing the Truth?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Move Forward While Convinced That He Is Still Lying to Me?
Video icon Q&A Should I Keep Pushing Him to Talk and Give Me Answers?
Video icon Q&A When Is the Right Time for Confrontation and How Do I Tell Him I Know about the Affair?