Handling Discovery

We call it “D-day” for a reason. These articles will help you understand the process of disclosure and how to keep the process safe.

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Video icon Q&A How Should Someone Disclose the Use of Pornography?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Achieve If I Don't Answer Comparison Questions?
Video icon Q&A Is It Unrealistic to Expect Answers to 'Why'?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Process the Truth of What Has Happened?
Video icon Q&A What Do I Need to Know?
Video icon Q&A Do I Need to Know?
Video icon Q&A Why Can’t I Remember When My Affair Started?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Discuss the Affair with My Mate?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Handle Transparency in Recovery?
Video icon Q&A How Far Back Should We Go?
Video icon Q&A How Can the Betrayed Handle Triggers during Reconciliation?
Video icon Q&A Should I Inform the AP's Spouse about Their Affair?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Get My Spouse to Take a Lie Detector Test?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Deal with Polygraph Results Such as This?
Video icon Q&A Can We Recover from This?
Video icon Q&A When Do We Stop Looking for Details and Move Forward?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Get Answers from My Mate?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Cope with Differing Marriage Histories?
Video icon Q&A With Multiple Discoveries over 2 Years, How Do I Know She's Told Me Everything?
Video icon Q&A Is His Affair Too Big for Us to Overcome?
Video icon Q&A Are My Requests Unreasonable?
Video icon Q&A If He Truly Has Disclosed Everything but I Still Feel Like He Hasn't, How Can We Move Forward?
Video icon Q&A If He Truly Has Disclosed Everything but I Still Feel Like He Hasn't, How Can We Move Forward?
Video icon Q&A Should I Not Bring up the Affair Again?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Handle Comparison with the Affair Partner and Changing My Mindset of My Self-Worth?
Video icon Q&A How Is Healing from a Long-Term Affair Different Than Healing from a Short-Term Affair or One Night Stand?
Video icon Q&A Can You Give Specific Suggestions to Handle the Locations of the Acting out with the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A What Safe Questions Can I Ask to Regain Our Openness but without Causing Me Pain?
Video icon Q&A He Wants to Do the Bootcamp but I Don't. What Do We Do?
Video icon Q&A Is It Therapeutic for People to Know about My Affair?
Video icon Q&A Is Asking Questions Abusive?
Video icon Q&A How Can We Overcome past Promises of Leaving after Betrayal?
Video icon Q&A Why Am I Struggling with the Length of the Affair?
Video icon Q&A Why Has New Information Been Such a Major Setback for Me?
Video icon Q&A Is It Beneficial to Read My Mates Journaling during Hope for Healing?
Video icon Q&A Why Am I So Troubled by the Sexual Aspect of the Affair?
Video icon Q&A Am I Wrong to Feel I Can’t Get Past His Infidelity?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Come to Terms With the Unending Lies?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Handle Recovery When We Are Both the Betrayed and the Unfaithful?
Video icon Q&A Letting Go: Explain the Task of Rewriting History
Video icon Q&A How Do I Heal without the Details of My Wife's Affair?
Video icon Q&A Can My Deceitful and Unfaithful Spouse Really Change?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Deal with This Level of Detail?
Video icon Q&A What's Important to Process After His Infidelity?
Video icon Q&A How Can We Handle the Embarrassment of People Knowing What My Spouse Did?
Video icon Q&A Is It Normal for the Wayward Spouse to Admit Things at D-Day and Then Retract Them?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Move Forward If I Don't Remember 100% of the Affair Details?
Video icon Q&A Is It Necessary to Confess My One Night Stand to My Unfaithful Spouse?
Video icon Q&A Should We Move to Get Away from the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A My Son Discovered My Spouse's Secret App. Now What?