Q&A Recovery Library

Thousands of questions answered by infidelity expert Rick Reynolds, LCSW and other experts from one trusted source. Gain insights from professionals who not only have specialized in treating infidelity for decades but also have healed from infidelity personally.
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Video icon Q&A Could My Husband’s Actions Be Early Signs of Relapse?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Support My Partner and Accept That I Can’t Control Their Recovery Journey?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Help My Unfaithful Husband as He Seems to Be So Buried in Shame, Self-Loathing, and a Huge Sense of Worthlessness?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Know if It Is Time to Let the Relationship Go?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Come to Terms With My New Reality as a Betrayed Spouse?
Video icon Q&A My Betrayed Partner Says They’re Only in EMS Online So They Can Say ‘They Tried’. What Do I Do?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Heal From the Shame I’m Feeling as a Result of My Affair?
Video icon Q&A Is It Normal for Family to Feel Disappointed at Us for Staying With the Wayward Spouse?
Video icon Q&A Why Does My Husband (Wayward) Not Want to Reconnect With Me (Betrayed) Physically?
Video icon Q&A Am I a Fool for Being Vulnerable With My Mate?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Get the Lying and the Porn Use by My Husband to Stop?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Feel Special Again After I Have Lost So Much Including Places That Were Just Ours?
Video icon Q&A Did My Wife Need to Justify Her Behavior in Cheating on Me?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Replace What I Feel With What I Know, if I Don’t Know What the Truth Is?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Shut Down the Intrusive Thoughts of My Husband With the Affair Partners That Have Become Erotic to Me?
Video icon Q&A What Else Can I Do to Help Facilitate the Healing Process for My Betrayed Spouse and Myself?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Get These Images Out of My Mind and Get back to Just Being With My Husband?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Help My Mate Get back the Dignity and Self-Worth I Took From Her With My Betrayal?
Video icon Q&A Are We at the End of the Road?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Get Past or Heal From the Hurtful Things My Husband Said About Me to His Affair Partners?
Video icon Q&A Would Viewing Surveillance Footage of My Husband’s Affair Be Helpful?
Video icon Q&A Do We Tell My Wife Parents About Her Behavior in Their House?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Get over Feeling Disgust With My Partner Over Who He Chose to Have an Affair With?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Truly Know if My Wayward Spouse Has Changed?
Video icon Q&A What Do I Do When My Wayward Spouse Refuses to Meet My Emotional Needs?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Better Understand the Behaviors of My Wayward Spouse?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Get My Wife to Understand That Abuse Towards Men Is Equal to Abuse Towards Women?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Help My Wayward Spouse Heal From Betrayal Trauma From a Prior Relationship?
Video icon Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Polygraphs, Anxiety Induced False Positives, and Full Disclosure During Recovery?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Believe My Mate When They Say the Affair Is Over?
Video icon Q&A If We Move, Would We Be Running From Our Problems or Could It Help Our Recovery?
Video icon Q&A As the Betrayed, Should I Focus on Avoiding the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A Do I Have to Take a Polygraph?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Get My Mate to Quit Using ‘Absolutes'?
Video icon Q&A Should I Risk Provoking My Affair Partner if It Makes My Mate Feel Better?
Video icon Q&A How Can We Reconnect if I Don’t Know What Happened?
Video icon Q&A Am I Asking for Too Much Control or Is the Wayward Spouse Being Unreasonable With a Lack of Boundaries?
Video icon Q&A Do I Need to Allow the Wayward Spouse to Have More Time in the Recovery Process?
Video icon Q&A What Should We Look for in a Therapist to Ensure They Can Provide the Specialized Support Needed for Infidelity Recovery?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Reconnect Intimately With My Betrayed Husband Now Knowing That He Is Dealing with His Own Temptations?
Video icon Q&A Can You Please Address the Problem of Grieving Memories Like Childbirth Under the Shadow of an Affair?
Video icon Q&A Is It Advisable to Leave This Church and Find Another Church Home to Help With Restoration and Recovery?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Stop the Comparisons, Build Confidence, and Get Better at Sex Without Feeling Like I’m Trying to Be Like the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A What Is the Best Way to Build Trust Around My Husband’s Actions and My Triggers?
Video icon Q&A Is It Okay for the Unfaithful to Masturbate While I, the Betrayed, Can’t Be Intimate Right Now Because of Lack of Emotional Connection and a Lot of Hurt?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Respond When the Betrayed Ridicules, Shames, and Slanders Me for What I Have Done?
Video icon Q&A Will I Ever Accept His Reasons for the Affairs?
Video icon Q&A Could You Give a Tangible Example of the Statement, ‘My Mate Is Never My Problem. My Mate Only Reveals the Problem in Me’?
Video icon Q&A How Is It Helpful to Label Someone for the Rest of Their Life When They Have Changed Directions?
Video icon Q&A Does My Mate Still Have Feelings for His Affair Partner?