Q&A Recovery Library Thousands of questions answered by infidelity expert Rick Reynolds, LCSW and other experts from one trusted source. Gain insights from professionals who not only have specialized in treating infidelity for decades but also have healed from infidelity personally. Must Reads more less Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity The Power of Small Groups Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? 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A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision The Problem with Forgiveness Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted 3872 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Can You Help Me Understand Why My Partner Has Never Cried? 11/28/2023 Q&A What Is the Best Way to Keep Boundaries in a Situation Where the Affair Happens in a Tight Knit Community? 11/28/2023 Q&A How Do I Communicate Love, Compassion, and Empathy during the Discovery Process or Questioning? 11/28/2023 Q&A What Traits Should We Look For in an Accountability Partner? 11/28/2023 Q&A Are There Support Groups Specifically for Recovery from Both Infidelity and Alcoholism? 11/28/2023 Q&A What Is My Role in My Husband’s Healing Journey If He Has Been a Serial Cheater for Our Whole Dating & Marriage Relationship? 10/23/2023 Q&A How Do I Create Safety for Myself with an Addict That Is Not Seeking Out Help for Himself? 10/23/2023 Q&A How Do I Deal With My Sexual Addiction When Everything I’ve Tried Isn’t Working? 10/23/2023 Q&A How Can I Help My Mate Understand the Devastation I’m Experiencing Because of Them Giving Me An STD? 10/23/2023 Q&A How Do I Commit to This Marriage When I Promised Myself I’d Never Stay with Someone Who Cheated On Me? 10/23/2023 Q&A Are the Requests I’m Making to Feel Safe Unreasonable? 10/23/2023 Q&A Can You Address Ambivalence on Behalf of the Betrayed Spouse? 10/23/2023 Q&A Is It Reasonable for Me to Feel Unsafe When My Wife Is around the Affair Partner without Me? 10/23/2023 Q&A Is Minimal Contact the Right Thing to Do at This Moment? 9/29/2023 Q&A How Do I Get My Conflict-Avoidant Spouse to Do Anything? 9/29/2023 Q&A How Do I Heal from the Profound Pain Caused by My Unfaithful Spouse Treating Me with Disdain for So Long? 9/29/2023 Q&A Can My Wife Be In Limerence Twice with the Same Man or Is It Love? 9/12/2023 Q&A How Long until My Husband Will Stop Focusing On Himself and Start Showing Up for Me? 9/12/2023 Q&A Do I Have the Right to Know What My Spouse Is Doing to Monitor Me? 9/12/2023 Q&A How Can I Even Buckle Down and Finish EMS Online Knowing That Essentially I Was Discarded? 8/15/2023 Q&A What Would Be Best for His Healing and Our Reconciliation? 8/15/2023 Q&A How Do You Begin to Sift through the Wreckage after an Affair and Determine the Value of What Was Lost? 8/15/2023 Q&A What Is the Best Way to Set Boundaries in the Workplace? 8/15/2023 Q&A Is It Possible to Not Love or Miss Someone after a 3-Year Affair? 8/15/2023 Q&A Are the Boundaries My Mate Has Placed on Our Conversations a Red Flag in Recovery? 8/15/2023 Q&A What If I Question Whether I Want to Be Married or Not? 8/15/2023 Q&A How Do I Show Empathy Towards My Wife after Her Revenge Affair When She Refuses to Give Full Disclosure? 8/15/2023 Q&A At This Point I Just Rather Not Have Sex at All. Is There Something That I Can Do to Change This? 8/15/2023 Q&A Should My Husband Contact the Affair Partner to Break Things off If They Haven’t Had Contact in Almost a Year? 6/29/2023 Q&A Can You Help Me Understand How My Husband Can Be Apathetic toward the Affair Partner? 6/29/2023 Q&A How Do We Navigate Seeing the Emotional Part of the Affair Differently? 6/29/2023 Q&A How Do I Stop the Triggers and Reminders When Every Day They Are There? 6/29/2023 Q&A What Is the Best Way to Acknowledge the Work My Husband Is Doing Without Giving Him Too Much Praise? 6/16/2023 Q&A How Can I Continue to Be Empathetic to Her If in Spite of All I Do, It Is Still Not Enough? 6/16/2023 Q&A Is It Common for Betrayed Spouses to Have Trouble with Depression and Lack of Focus Which Detrimentally Affects Their Work? 6/16/2023 Q&A I Understand the Importance of Not Being Defensive about the Infidelity or Betrayal, but Does That Extend into Every Aspect of Our Lives? 6/16/2023 Q&A Why Would He Go Back to the Same Person He Thinks Is So Nasty? 6/16/2023 Q&A How Do I Handle My Betrayal When the Affair Partner Is So Close with My Husband’s Family? 6/16/2023 Q&A How Did ADHD and Other Factors Like Depression and Anxiety Contribute to My Affairs? 6/16/2023 Q&A How Do I Move past Something I Love Being Shared with the Affair Partner? 6/16/2023 Q&A Can You Elaborate More on Type Four Affairs? 6/16/2023 Q&A Am I Wrong to Still Be in This Much Pain? 5/19/2023 Q&A How Can I Have Hope for My Mates Recovery with Those Odds? 5/19/2023 Q&A Why Do I Still Respond Physically like I Am Lying When I’m Telling the Truth? 5/19/2023 Q&A Are Any Lasting Feelings for the Affair Partner Permitted? 5/19/2023 Q&A How Do We Navigate Recovery If My Mate Doesn’t Believe They Are Committing Infidelity? 5/19/2023 Q&A If There Is a Future for Our Marriage, Would You See the Journey to Be Any Different than Normal? 5/19/2023 Q&A How Do I Create a Coherent Story If the Details from My Mate Are Always Changing? 5/19/2023 Q&A How Do I Let Go of What Happened and Fully Re-Engage with My Mate? 5/19/2023 Q&A How Do I Handle a New Betrayal Immediately after EMS Weekend? 5/02/2023 Pages« first‹ previous123456789…next ›last »
